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🔗Links for today’s episode:

• Links for Kathie’s Coaching and Consulting: https://www.kathieowen.com/links 
• Blog post with bonus resources:  https://www.kathieowen.com/blog/bullying-in-the-workplace
• Victim-victimizer articles: https://www.kathieowen.com/victim-victimizer
• Power vs Force articles: https://www.kathieowen.com/power-vs-force 
• Amy Porterfield articles: https://www.kathieowen.com/amyporterfield

In today's episode:
Overcoming Workplace Bullying and Embracing Personal Power

The speaker shares their personal journey of dealing with workplace bullying, which led to their firing under allegations of 'theft of time'.

Diagnosed with complex PTSD in 2006, they gained what they describe as a 'superpower' that allows them to understand people’s communication, identifying body language and intentions effectively.

Despite expressing their concern to HR about the toxic work environment and trying to implement positive changes, the speaker faced harassment for speaking out. Reflecting on past traumas and drawing parallels with previous experiences in their personal life, they highlight how this diagnosis has increased their resilience and emotional intelligence. By reframing their firing as a resignation, they embrace the opportunity to pursue more fulfilling work that aligns with their values and skills.

The narrative concludes with reflections on power dynamics in the workplace and personal empowerment, urging others to prioritize emotional intelligence and empathy.

Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction to Workplace Bullying 
00:58 Personal Experience with Bullying 
02:49 HR and Social Media Surveillance 
04:39 Confrontation and Repercussions 
07:23 Understanding Bullying Dynamics 
08:46 Impact on Personal Life 
13:34 Lack of Recognition and Support 
20:15 Excitement Turns to Condescension 
21:00 Facing Condescending Management 
21:57 Connecting the Dots of Bullying 
23:06 The Final Straw 
23:45 The Aftermath of Speaking Up 
25:03 Realizing the Extent of Harassment 
26:13 The Unexpected Termination 
27:51 Reflecting on the Experience 
31:11 The Impact on Family 
32:25 Embracing Resilience and Power 
36:13 A New Perspective 
38:30 Final Thoughts and Farewell