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The distinction between high sex drive and sexual addiction

Why hating your sexuality is counterproductive to recovery

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02:39 Discussion on Sex Addiction

04:35 Myth: Sobriety is Just Not Acting Out

12:07 Myth: Abstaining from Sex Cures Addiction

15:55 Myth: More Sex Solves the Problem

18:32 Embracing Healthy Sexuality

20:22 The Journey of Healing and Recovery

33:06 Myth: Acts of Service Don’t Heal Emotional Wounds

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