Habits on Purpose

201. How to Stop Trying to Control Everything


Listen Later

Do you bristle when things do not go according to plan? In this episode, we explore how the habit of trying to control everything becomes one of the biggest time wasters and energy drains in your life. When you pour effort into things that are not fully under your control, you lose time, and you exhaust your mental, emotional, and physical resources.

Many of us do this without realizing it. Trying to manage other people's feelings, reactions, or interpretations drains our energy and leaves us feeling ineffective. I explore why the urge to overcontrol develops and what changes when you shift your attention to the small category of what is genuinely yours to manage, rather than the much larger category that is not.

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/201

Join the Habits on Purpose newsletter for extra tools, prompts, and stories between episodes: https://habitsonpurpose.com/

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Habits on PurposeBy Kristi Angevine, MD

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

262 ratings


More shows like Habits on Purpose

View all
The Life Coach School Podcast by Brooke Castillo

The Life Coach School Podcast

8,798 Listeners

Good Life Project by Jonathan Fields / Acast

Good Life Project

3,283 Listeners

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled by JLML Press

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

3,669 Listeners

10% Happier with Dan Harris by 10% Happier

10% Happier with Dan Harris

12,714 Listeners

Take a Break from Drinking by Rachel Hart

Take a Break from Drinking

2,585 Listeners

Losing 100 Pounds with Corinne by Corinne Crabtree

Losing 100 Pounds with Corinne

7,505 Listeners

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone by Kara Loewentheil

UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone

5,124 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,467 Listeners

It's About Time | Time Management & Productivity for Work Life & Balance by Anna Dearmon Kornick

It's About Time | Time Management & Productivity for Work Life & Balance

234 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,154 Listeners

Claim Your Power by Kim Peretz

Claim Your Power

294 Listeners

On Attachment by Stephanie Rigg

On Attachment

1,052 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

19,768 Listeners

The Secure Love Podcast with Julie Menanno by Julie Menanno

The Secure Love Podcast with Julie Menanno

350 Listeners

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast by Civility Media

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

8,398 Listeners