Habits on Purpose

Joining me today is Dr. Mary Leung, a full-time medical oncology and hematology physician, as well as a certified life coach. She’s here to share a bit about her journey of becoming a coach and how she’s been able to achieve better time management.

Even if you’re not a physician or don’t work in medicine, listen to learn how you can become more efficient at your job so you can attend to, and more importantly, enjoy other parts of your life outside of the office. That includes using mindfulness exercises, improving sleep hygiene, removing tech distractions, and more. Get ready to take notes!

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The life of a high achiever is filled with transitions. Whether it’s in life, work, relationships, or something else, there’s a seemingly endless number of starts, stops, and new beginnings. It’s tough not to get overwhelmed during these periods, which is why I’ve developed a list of ways to make the transitions easier.

From simply taking a moment to pause and reflect to doing something fun and playful, listen in as I outline these eight essential practices that are easy to do and highly effective. I also provide some clues to look out for, which may alert you to feelings of stress during a transition. That way, you can intervene before the emotional intensity builds.

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It will come as no surprise that one of the biggest challenges for high achievers is saying no. But why is it so hard? The struggle is deeply rooted in societal expectations, fears of disappointing others, worries about how we are perceived, and much more. Luckily, there is a path forward.

Tune in to hear the benefits of saying no, including finally freeing yourself from being perpetually overextended and reprioritizing self-care. I’ll also be providing my favorite practice for developing more ease when saying no, as well as tips and tricks, such as buying yourself time before responding to a request. It’s all here, so let’s get started.

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In this episode, I explore a recently popularized concept from Dr. Becky Kennedy in her book Good Inside called “the most generous interpretation.” This approach not only helps us identify our habits better but also provides a kinder way to engage with ourselves as we work on making lasting change.

Listen in as I share how the most generous interpretation and deliberately assuming positive intent open us up to curiosity and compassion so we don’t overlook the root cause of our habits. Throughout the episode, I’ll provide clear examples to reinforce this approach and offer a host of excellent resources.

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Anger is not only a natural emotion; it is actually a signal alerting you to three main ideas: that there has been a boundary breach, a value has been compromised, or that you have just witnessed an injustice. And if we embrace anger, it can radically change our lives.

Listen in as I reveal my go-to tool for managing anger—not by suppressing it, but by inviting it to take a seat at the table within our system. This approach helps you explore the root of your anger with compassion and curiosity, leading to a deeper understanding and appreciation of your core values.

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For high achievers, overthinking might seem inevitable. While second-guessing and catastrophizing can lead to overcomplicating things, there is always hope—and coaching offers a way forward. If you don't believe me, this episode is for you.

Joining me today is Dr. Stella Evans, a pediatrician, medical director for the Spina Bifida Clinic at Children's Hospitals and Clinics of Minnesota, and certified life coach. She's here to share her incredible coaching journey, including her experiences in my HOPP program. Listen in to learn about the power of coaching, including how it can help you achieve self-compassion, connect you to your spiritual center, and grant you an opportunity to serve others. 

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In Episode 131 I’m taking a different role as the guest in an interview led by Dr. Kavetha Sundaramoorthy and Dr. Erica Bove. We dive deep into the habit of rumination—why we do it, how it shows up, and practical ways to manage it. 

We discuss how rumination often arises from unresolved emotions or suppressed feelings and the importance of recognizing this habit as the first step toward making a change. For those of us who find ourselves ruminating, especially in situations that trigger insecurity or perfectionism, we offer actionable strategies.

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Returning to the podcast is Mariana Fávero Bonesso, a life coach specializing in overcoming procrastination and enhancing focus. Last week, she guided us on setting achievable goals and tackling procrastination without succumbing to anger and frustration.

Today, we're shifting our focus away from procrastination to delve into Internal Family Systems (IFS). Whether you're familiar with IFS or hearing about it for the first time, this discussion is for you! We'll explore what IFS is, why it’s considered non-pathologizing, and how it can be used to heal and transform our habits.

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My guest today is Mariana Fávero Bonesso, a life coach specializing in overcoming procrastination and enhancing focus. Mariana works with high-performing individuals who often feel overwhelmed, helping them become more structured and execution-oriented. She's here to share her inspiring story and effective methods.

Listen in as Mariana explains how to set meaningful goals and break them down into manageable steps. She'll also provide valuable tips on overcoming paralysis, as well as strategies to prevent anger and frustration when procrastination strikes.

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An integral part of maintaining a high-achieving lifestyle is a loving, fulfilling relationship with your partner. If that’s lacking, it’s only a matter of time before you suffer a setback. Luckily, by making a few minor mindset shifts, you can bring more love and connection into your marriage.

Maggie Reyes is a modern marriage coach, interpersonal communication expert, and author of Questions for Couples Journal. She helps Type-A women like you have better marriages without adding more work to your already overloaded schedule. Listen in as Maggie shares her path to coaching and the complexities of interpersonal communication. 

Get the full show notes and more information here: https://habitsonpurpose.com/128