Anger Management

22 - The Winner's Triangle Will Save Your Relationship


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For more information (and FREE resources) on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

In this episode, we dive into the Winner’s Triangle - a powerful model to build trust, respect, and deeper connections in your relationships.

Learn how to shift from blame to accountability, practice active listening without judgment, and express empathy while setting healthy boundaries. By embracing the Assertive, Caring, and Vulnerable roles, you can manage conflicts effectively and foster stronger, more balanced bonds.

Whether in personal or professional dynamics, the Winner's Triangle is an essential tool for creating a calmer, happier, and healthier life.

Key Takeaways:

  • One simple change in communication can stop fights and build trust in relationships.
  • Understanding the Winner’s Triangle helps to recognise negative patterns in conflicts.
  • The Winner’s Triangle promotes assertiveness, vulnerability, and caring to improve relationships.
  • Using 'I statements' is crucial for expressing feelings without blame or anger.
  • Vulnerability is about sharing emotions honestly while seeking support, not playing the victim.
  • Caring involves listening and supporting others without trying to fix their problems.

Links referenced in this episode:

For more information (and FREE resources) on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com.

For a FREE training on how to control your anger, visit angersecrets.com/training/.

For Alastair's comprehensive anger management program, The Complete Anger Management System, visit angersecrets.com/course.

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