Addiction Makes Three

23 - How to get through a relapse without losing hope


Listen Later


In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a fear that many face in the journey of supporting a loved one with addiction: relapse.


Whether your loved one has relapsed before, or you’re constantly worried it might happen, this conversation is here to bring clarity, strength, and hope.


Relapse can feel like a devastating setback, leaving you questioning if all the hard work and progress have been wasted. But it doesn’t have to mean starting from zero. In this episode, we explore the difference between a lapse and a relapse—a crucial distinction that can completely change the way you approach your loved one’s journey and your own response.


We’ll talk about the mindset shift needed in how we view setbacks and stumbles and see them as part of change rather than its end, with a few practical analogies that help reframe these moments. 


What You’ll Learn:


  • The key difference between a lapse and a relapse and why it matters
  • How to reframe setbacks with compassion and understanding for both of you
  • Practical steps to support your loved one and yourself in a positive way during challenging times
  • Tools to help you helpfully navigate your emotions, thoughts, and responses
  • Why language matters here.


Mentioned in This Episode:


  • I had a lapse of my own in January 2024 - listen to Episode 10 of the podcast
  • Pathway to Wellness Program: Dive deeper into understanding addiction and effective strategies to support yourself and your loved one.


This episode is for anyone feeling the weight of a loved one’s struggles, offering a perspective that brings hope, empathy, and resilience. Tune in, take a breath, and know that you are not alone in this journey.




Show Notes:


If you'd like to implement what have been learning on the podcast ...


Be the first to know when the doors open to the Kind and Evidenced based program for loved ones and spouses of those struggling with addiction or in recovery - The three month Pathway to Wellness Program. Drop your details here.


I love getting mail! Send me an email here or [email protected]


Are we Instagram friends?


Book in a friendly chat about your situation and how it can be better: Click here to find a time

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Addiction Makes ThreeBy Amanda Lockyer

  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5
  • 5

5

13 ratings


More shows like Addiction Makes Three

View all
The Overwhelmed Brain by Paul Colaianni: Relationship and Emotional Abuse Expert

The Overwhelmed Brain

1,898 Listeners

The Mindset Mentor by Rob Dial

The Mindset Mentor

13,599 Listeners

No Filter by Mamamia Podcasts

No Filter

575 Listeners

All In The Mind by ABC

All In The Mind

774 Listeners

Mamamia Out Loud by Mamamia Podcasts

Mamamia Out Loud

617 Listeners

The Addicted Mind Podcast by Duane Osterlind, LMFT

The Addicted Mind Podcast

636 Listeners

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett by DOAC

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8,654 Listeners

On Purpose with Jay Shetty by iHeartPodcasts

On Purpose with Jay Shetty

27,603 Listeners

The Imperfects by Hugh van Cuylenburg, Ryan Shelton & Josh van Cuylenburg

The Imperfects

337 Listeners

Lise and Sarah by Those Two Girls

Lise and Sarah

50 Listeners

Huberman Lab by Scicomm Media

Huberman Lab

29,253 Listeners

We Can Do Hard Things by Treat Media and Glennon Doyle

We Can Do Hard Things

41,498 Listeners

The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

21,168 Listeners

Till The Wheels Fall Off by TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson

Till The Wheels Fall Off

261 Listeners

unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver by Audacy | Mary Claire Haver, MD

unPAUSED with Dr. Mary Claire Haver

1,084 Listeners