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233 - Redefining Self-Love: Loving Yourself Enough to do Hard Things | Life Happens Podcast


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Self-love isn’t always soft, easy, or comfortable—sometimes it means giving yourself the tough love you’ve avoided and finally doing the hard things. Growth happens in the moments we choose courage over comfort. 💫

This week on Life Happens with Barb & Michelle, we’re answering your questions about self-love and how to build a strong foundation within. With envy, self-doubt, comparison, and self-judgment at an all-time high, this conversation offers a gentle, grounded guide for breaking through the noise and cultivating real confidence.

💬 Barb opens up about the power of positive self-talk and how it helped her heal from perfectionism and years of self-doubt.

💬 Michelle shares her personal experience with envy and how understanding the root of it transformed her relationship with herself.

Episode Highlights

Cultivating Real Self-Love: How to act with compassion even when your mind is filled with negative thoughts.

Releasing Tough Love Habits: Identifying when you’re bypassing your emotions and learning to honour your true self-love language.

From Envy to Self-Satisfaction: Recognizing comparison, interrupting the negative narrative, and rewriting your internal dialogue.

Navigating Singleness: It’s okay to feel disappointment—while still choosing joy, connection, and fulfillment in your life today.

Remember: You don’t need to earn your self-love. There is nothing you must prove or achieve to be worthy of kindness, compassion, and care. 🌸


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💛 Episode Topics:

  • Releasing self-doubt and constant self-criticism
  • Cultivating kinder, more loving self-talk
  • Letting go of judgment, comparison, and the urge to “fix” yourself
  • Finding genuine satisfaction and love for your life as it is
  • Navigating singleness with confidence and self-worth

💬 We’d love to hear from you! What insight or moment resonated most with you in this episode? Share in the comments—we truly read every one.

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