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Episode 2452:

Evan Marc Katz guides Patty through her dilemma between a safe but less passionate relationship with Ken and the allure of her high school flame, Jim, who has a history of infidelity. He stresses the importance of making long-term decisions based on shared values and stability rather than fleeting attraction, reminding Patty that the only vote that truly matters is her own.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/chemistry/should-i-choose-my-old-flame-over-my-safe-boyfriend

Quotes to ponder:

"When someone shows you who he is, believe him."

"Attraction is not a solid foundation for a long-term relationship. Good communication and shared values is a much better predictor of success."

"The only person who decides what’s best for you is YOU."

Episode references:

Marry Him: https://www.amazon.com/Marry-Him-Settling-Mr-Good/dp/045123216X

The Paradox of Choice: https://www.amazon.com/Paradox-Choice-Why-More-Less/dp/0060005696

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