Feeling like the supporting character in your own story? This episode is your plot twist. We unpack Main Character Energy (MCE) as a buildable skill set—not a personality type—and show how tending to your needs heals burnout and expands your capacity to show up for the people and causes you care about.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• The 3-part MCE framework: Permission → Self-Trust → Massive, Messy Action
• Why MCE isn't selfish—it's the power source that fuels your impact (both/and)
• The tiny tool that changes everything: 10 Seconds of Courage
• Five rapid-fire ideas to practice 10 seconds of courage today (self-care, belonging, shoot-your-shot)
• How to stop "best-friend energy" (people-pleasing, perfectionism, over-functioning) and step center stage

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