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2705: Knowing What You Know Today - Would You Still Marry Your Partner? By Dr. Margaret Rutherford on Empathy and Commitment


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Episode 2705:

Couples who thrive over time tend to “turn toward” one another, facing vulnerability, taking responsibility for mistakes, and embracing empathy, rather than turning away in resentment or detachment. Through the moving story of Jack and Dana, Dr. Margaret Rutherford shows how mutual accountability and heartfelt apologies can rebuild trust, even after years of missed opportunities for connection. Her insights offer a clear path toward transforming regret into renewed commitment.

Read along with the original article(s) here: https://drmargaretrutherford.com/knowing-what-you-know-today-would-you-still-marry-your-partner/

Quotes to ponder:

"I know I dominated the family. I didn’t know how to be any other way."

"I allowed Jack to dominate our relationship. There were reasons."

"It’s never too late to turn toward them to ask for their understanding or forgiveness, to build a more intimate bond."

Episode references:

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: https://www.amazon.com/Seven-Principles-Making-Marriage-Work/dp/0553447718

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