How To Love Yourself No Matter What

287. Overthinking Part 1: Why Your Mind Races (and What’s Actually Causing It)


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Overthinking isn’t a flaw — it’s a survival response.

If your brain feels like it never shuts off, if you replay conversations, worry about every decision, or try to anticipate every possible problem before it happens — this episode is for you.

When your nervous system has been running in survival mode for too long, overthinking becomes your body’s way of trying to keep you safe. But the truth is, it’s not protecting you — it’s exhausting you. In this episode, we break down why overthinking isn’t a mindset problem, it’s a nervous system problem, and how learning to regulate your body first changes everything.

When you understand that your “racing thoughts” are really a sensitive nervous system doing its best to help you survive, you stop trying to fix yourself — and start working with yourself.

This is Part 1 of a 3-part series where I teach the Love Yourself No Matter What Method — starting with nervous system regulation and why your gas pedal and brake are always out of sync.

💡 In this episode, you’ll discover:
  • Why overthinking is your nervous system’s way of trying to keep you safe
  • How a sensitive nervous system gets triggered — and what it really means
  • The difference between the sympathetic and parasympathetic systems (and how to balance them)
  • What “fight, flight, freeze, or fawn” actually looks like in real life
  • Why your brain doesn’t know the difference between a bear chasing you and your friend not texting back
  • The simple daily practices that start rebalancing your nervous system — without hours of meditation

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