The Ultimate Intimacy Podcast

288. If Your Wife Isn't Interested In Sex, Maybe You Should Look "Inward" Instead Of Blaming Her


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Okay, before we jump into this episode, we do recognize that there are women out there who just don't want to have sex and do have AMAZING husbands. We totally get that, and our hearts break for the husbands because sexual intimacy is so vital and important in marriage.

But... what if there are things that some husbands are doing (that they don't realize) that are causing their wives not to want to be sexually intimate?

We had a wife reach out to us and express that her husband has a temper, gets angry at her, talks down to her in public, and doesn't treat her very well.

She expressed that she feels broken by her spouse's behavior, and because of this, she has a hard time opening up and wanting to be intimate with her husband/the person causing her pain (who is supposed to love her and make her feel safe).

Some women also want sex to be emotionally and spiritually connecting as well, and when they feel it is only physical for their husbands, that also erodes the desire.

The bottom line is, when a wife is not feeling safe, secure, or respected by her husband, she is not going to want to be intimate with him. It is just that simple!

In this episode, we talk about the things husbands might do (without even knowing it) that cause their wives to withdraw and not want to be sexually intimate with them. Can we look inwardly and be open and honest with ourselves about the things we might be contributing to that? Join us for this very important episode where we discuss the things some husbands do that cause their spouses not to want to be intimate. We pray it can help your marriage.

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