Feeling overwhelmed by your to-do list? I share three practical strategies to reduce overwhelm and finally get things done. Learn how to find safety, soften your defensive state, and take small, almost effortless steps forward. This episode is a replay of a free webinar from the Unstucking Academy. Discover actionable tips to improve your daily life and reach your goals without feeling stressed. Tune in and take a step towards living more calmly, confidently, and connected.

00:00 3 Strategies to reduce overwhelm and get stuff done (262)

01:26 intro, about, and goal

01:53 You have things to do

03:34 3 options to get stuff done

04:19 Feel safety and then get stuff done

05:14 Passive safety cues

07:29 Mindfully connect with a passive cue

09:08 Safety cues are everywhere

10:00 Jenny finds safety first

11:30 Soften defense, then get stuff done

12:30 Imagine defensive activation ahead of time

13:21 Mindfully permit defense

14:36 Recovering from overwhelm

15:51 Jenny softens defense

18:55 Bypass overwhelm to get more stuff done

20:53 Kaizen Steps Should be Very Small

22:21 How to make small Kaizen steps

22:54 Kaizen Examples

25:47 Kaizen example: Tatiana

27:15 Kaizen example: James

28:40 Kaizen example: Heather

31:37 Kaizen ecample: you

39:57 Emotional objection to Kaizen

43:43 Softening defense of work overwhelm

47:40 Amanda overwhelm at grocery store

Resources:

🔸 Wondering what to do next? https://bit.ly/4ozbppZ

🔸 Stuck Not Broken book series - https://www.justinlmft.com/books

🔸 Polyvagal 101 audio series - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0

Crisis resources:

• National Suicide Prevention Hotline - 1 (800) 273-8255
• National Domestic Violence Hotline -1 (800) 799-7233
• LGBT Trevor Project Lifeline - 1 (866) 488-7386
• National Sexual Assault Hotline - 1 (800) 656-4673
• Crisis Text Line - Text “HOME” to 741741
• Call 911 for emergency

This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific life advice; it is for educational and entertainment purposes only.

Justin Sunseri is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist registered in the State of California (#99147).

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Self-Regulation Simplified

Self-Regulation Simplified is a step-by-step, 8-week Polyvagal-informed program for those ready to move beyond frustration and build real, lasting self-regulation skills—together. Learn more about Self-Regulation Simplified - https://www.stucknotbroken.com/self-regulation-simplified