The Addicted Mind Podcast

324: Breaking Free from High-Functioning Codependency with Terri Cole


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High-functioning codependency takes center stage as we welcome licensed psychotherapist and boundary expert Terri Cole to the Addicted Mind podcast. With a unique journey from a talent agent to a psychotherapist, Terri shares her personal experiences and insights from her book, "Too Much: A Guide to Breaking the Cycle of High-Functioning Codependency." We dive into the world of individuals who seem to manage life with ease yet secretly bear the weight of excessive responsibilities. Terri provides valuable strategies to help listeners recognize and break free from these patterns, offering a path towards healthier relationships and personal well-being.


The episode also shines a light on the connection between highly sensitive people and high-functioning codependency. Terri and I explore the challenges of managing the instinct to control others' emotions and the importance of setting healthy boundaries. Personal anecdotes bring these discussions to life, including the struggle to support a loved one while respecting their autonomy. By acknowledging the discomfort of letting go, listeners can learn to empower others to be the heroes of their own stories, fostering genuine connection and intimacy.


In this episode, you will hear:

  • High-functioning codependency and its hidden struggles explored with Terri Cole
  • Transition from talent agent to psychotherapist; insights from Terri's book "Too Much"
  • Connection between highly sensitive people and high-functioning codependency
  • Strategies for setting boundaries and fostering healthier relationships
  • Embracing vulnerability and authenticity as part of recovery
  • Importance of self-discovery and courage to disappoint for personal growth
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    Supporting Resources:

    NovusMindfulLife.com

    Instagram: Terri Cole (@terricole)

    Book: Too Much https://www.terricole.com/


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