In this powerful episode, I sit down with Samantha Boss—divorce coach, parenting advocate, and truth-teller behind “The Ugly Truth of Divorce.” Samantha shares her raw, unfiltered journey through a high-conflict divorce, co-parenting with a diagnosed narcissist, and the long road to healing—not just for herself, but for her children. 

We talk about the parts of divorce no one prepares you for: the manipulation, the guilt, the courtroom chaos, and the silent trauma children absorb when parents are too overwhelmed to see the signs. 

This episode isn’t just for those navigating divorce. It’s a masterclass in emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and reclaiming your parenting power in the face of chaos. If you're struggling to co-parent with someone toxic—or you feel like you’ve lost yourself trying to keep the peace—this conversation will bring clarity, courage, and hope. 

🔑 What We Cover: 

• Samantha’s whirlwind 60-day engagement and the red flags she missed 

• The reality of divorcing a narcissist and enduring 300+ court appearances 

• The impact of parental alienation—and how she didn’t see it coming 

• Why emotional dysregulation sabotaged her parenting (and how she changed it) 

• The role of play therapy in uncovering her children’s silent suffering 

• How trying to “look like the good parent” backfired 

• The turning point when a child psychologist gave her the wake-up call she needed 

• Why trying to force co-parenting isn’t always the right answer 

• How giving her children choices created emotional safety and empowerment 

• What her children taught her about healing, boundaries, and finding their voice 

• Why neutrality—not bashing the ex—is critical for your child’s long-term wellbeing 

• Creating new traditions post-divorce and redefining “family” on your own terms 

• Long-term parenting: how to think beyond court dates and into your child’s future 

🛠️ Practical Tools and Takeaways: 

• Stay neutral or say nothing when it comes to your co-parent. Let your kids form their own opinions. 

• Emotional regulation is your superpower—your children mirror what you model. 

• Prioritize your healing before trying to fix your kids. Your transformation leads theirs. 

• Empower kids with choices—big or small. It restores their sense of control. 

• Focus on creating a home that feels safe, consistent, and peaceful. 

• Don't force co-parenting with someone incapable of respectful collaboration. Parallel parenting may be safer. 

• Think long-term. Your relationship with your child goes far beyond age 18. 

💬 Memorable Quotes: 

“I was promoting someone who was tearing me down behind closed doors. And the kids felt the disconnect.” 

“I didn’t realize I was teaching my children to people-please a bully.” 

“Once I emotionally regulated, everything changed. My kids followed my lead—because I was finally leading.” 

👥 About Our Guest: Samantha Boss 

Samantha Boss is the founder of The Ugly Truth of Divorce, where she supports parents navigating high-conflict co-parenting, parental alienation, and post-divorce recovery. After surviving a decade of court battles and emotional warfare, she now helps others reclaim peace and power in their parenting. 

Learn more about Samantha at https://samanthaboss.com 

Resources:  The 5 Stages from Betrayal to Breakthrough: https://thepbtinstitute.com/reclaim 

The Rebuild Program (For those who betrayed and want to heal): https://thepbtinstitute.com/rebuild/  

The PBT Institute Community (Join the healing conversation): https://thepbtinstitute.com