The Divorce Revolution

435. How to Handle Breakdowns in a Coaching Session (And Turn Them Into Breakthroughs)


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Have you ever worried about what you'd do if a client cried, shut down, resisted, or even got irritated during a coaching session? If you're building a coaching business, these moments can feel intimidating but they're often the very moments where the biggest breakthroughs happen.

In this episode of The Divorce Revolution Podcast, I'm breaking down exactly how to navigate emotionally charged coaching sessions without freezing, fixing, or letting your own emotions take over. I share a real behind-the-scenes moment from a recent client session where things got tense—and how I used grounding, curiosity, and space-holding to help her move from frustration to clarity. You'll also learn the difference between a breakdown and a breakthrough, how to stay regulated when your client isn't, and why your presence (not your answers) is what truly transforms people.

Resources Mentioned:

  • The Confident Coach Certification Waitlist is the ONLY certification specifically for divorced moms who want overcome imposter syndrome and finally feel legit: https://products.ambershaw.com/certification
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What I Discuss:

  • 01:43 A real coaching moment where things got heated
  • 03:09 How to see emotional moments as breakthroughs, not breakdowns
  • 06:44 Simple techniques to help your clients settle and reconnect
  • 13:41 How the Confident Coach Certification helps you feel prepared
  • 15:05 Final thoughts and encouragement for new coaches

Find more from Amber Shaw:

Instagram: @msambershaw

Website: ambershaw.com

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