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When the "with you" is silent when he says, "I don't want a relationship"
OR You're waiting around hoping the situation-ship becomes more.                      Bonus episode on MORE about being the placeholder here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/ep-125-dont-be-89290901?utm_medium=sharesheet&amp;utm_source=sharesheet&amp;utm_campaign=postshare_creator&amp;utm_content=join_link

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45. Stop Being a Placeholder/When He Commits to Someone Else

Welcome to The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast—
hosted by mindset + intuitive coach, author, and “SOFT Love” enthusiast Kindall D. 

This is your safe space to heal from toxic relationship patterns and find healthy love, starting within. 
No shame, no pressure—just real talk, inner work, and heart-centered support. I believe in “soft love,” not “tough love”—because you’ve already been through enough. This is about helping you reconnect with your power in a way that feels nurturing, not punishing.
You’re safe here, seen here, and you’re not alone.💜

Books + coaching:
linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net

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Welcome to The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast— hosted by mindset + intuitive coach, author, and “SOFT Love” enthusiast Kindall D. This is your safe space to heal from toxic relationship patterns and find healthy love, starting within. No shame, no pressure—just real talk, inner work, and heart-centered support. I believe in “soft love,” not “tough love”—because you’ve already been through enough. This is about helping you reconnect with your power in a way that feels nurturing, not punishing. You’re safe here, seen here, and you’re not alone.💜 Books + coaching: linktr.ee/ivebeenthatgirl.net

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