When Trey’s partner of four years broke up with her via text right after they moved into a new condo together, little did she know what a journey of self-love and discovery she was about to embark on. She switched gears from writing a book on how she manifested a great relationship to one on her healing journey and how she got to the place she is today. The result is Black Girl in Love (With Herself), a beautiful book that meshes practical personal growth tips with personal insight into her life and the lessons learned along the way.

We loved sitting down with Trey to talk about how her surprising, devastating breakup led to her re-writing the rules of pretty much every aspect of her life. Settle in! This is an interview to be savored! Some of what’s in store:

-Why her book begins with being on the bathroom floor

-How she decided to fully release her ex

-Her journey to seek out counseling and mental health support during the pandemic

-Ways she has learned to thrive as a single woman

-Insights into lessons learned about friendships

-And MORE!

You WANT to read Trey’s book. Grab Black Girl in Love (With Herself) here. 

You can learn more about Trey and her upcoming events on her website here.

And check her awesome IG account out @BlackGirlInLove 

What did you think of Trey’s story? Send us a DM and let us know. Head over to the podcast Instagram @exphilespodcast and follow Clair @clairlofthouse and Janice @Janiceformichella. And if you’d like to join our online community, find us on Facebook at Breakups, Broken Hearts, and Moving On.  We want to know you and for you to know us!

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The Ex-Philes is an inclusive space for all adults who are looking to heal their hearts and have happy relationships. We believe that love is love and that there are a wide variety of different types of relationships and that all are valid. We recognize each individual's right to self-identify. As podcast hosts, we are dedicated to making this a safe space for all and strive to portray that in our content. We welcome feedback around our efforts and thank you for being a part of the community.