ADHD mums aren’t lazy — our homes just weren’t designed with our brains in mind. And no, piles aren’t proof of failure. In this episode, Jane unpacks why traditional “Pinterest-perfect” organising systems fail neurodivergent families, and how to design a home that actually supports ADHD working memory. From intentional landing zones to open storage, these ADHD-friendly hacks help you stop fighting your environment and start building scaffolding that works with your brain.

What We Cover in This Episode

• Why ADHD brains struggle with “out of sight, out of mind” systems
• How object permanence and visual cues shape daily life for ADHD mums
• Why Pinterest-worthy storage often fails in real homes
• ADHD-friendly hacks: open storage, intentional landing zones, pairing items with habits
• How “piles” aren’t laziness — they’re often functional reminder systems
• Why the bare minimum is still a miracle when you’re parenting with ADHD — and why that doesn’t make you messy, it makes you resourceful

This Episode Is For You If

• You’ve ever re-bought something from Kmart because you forgot you already owned it
• You feel like you’re drowning in clutter but can’t stick to “minimalist” systems
• You’ve tried every Pinterest hack and still end up with piles everywhere
• You’re tired of being told you’re lazy or messy when you’re actually adapting to how your brain works
• You want practical home design tips that are ADHD-friendly and realistic for mums

References

• Barkley, R. A. What are the long-term health implications of ADHD? This paper/report covers how ADHD increases risks for poorer health outcomes and reduces life expectancy if untreated. ADHDAwarenessMonth 2025
• Tuckman, A. Wasting Time? Hyperfocusing? ADHD and Time Perception Problems (ADDitude, 2025) — explains how ADHD distorts time perception (time blindness), impacting productivity, relationships, self-esteem

✨ Listen now: “I’m Not Lazy — My House Just Doesn’t Have a Memory” — available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and adhdmums.com.au.

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