Your Virtual Upline Podcast

497: How Success Hijacked Your Calling


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Achieving a massive milestone or hitting the top rank is supposed to bring a sense of peace, but for so many builders, the morning after success actually brings a heavy, sleepless anxiety. In this third installment of our special four-part mini-series, I reveal more on how a fear-led system quietly takes over your business, and how it slowly conditions you to ignore your natural instincts until your self-worth is completely rented from a monthly title.

If you missed the first two episodes in this special 4-part LOVE-LED™ series where I share the new work I've been doing with leaders, make sure to check those out below, and stay tuned for the final installment where I will give you the exact map for your future development!

Listen to Learn:

1:06 - How the fear-led growth system gets installed inside a leader, and parallel journeys of two women I work with who started with alignment but completely lost themselves to success

2:18 - The power of early business days driven by genuine belief and human connection, and what often happens to leaders so often along the way

4:26 - The way that the fear-led system masquerades as mentorship, support, and wisdom and the true impact this has on you, and your business

6:52 - Unmasking "The Pusher" through Kim's realization that she wasn't actually being coached

9:50 - The harsh reality of the "morning after success," where hitting a long-awaited rank or title immediately morphs into an intense, sleepless fear of losing it

14:39 - How fear takes over the source position, causing leaders to make purely financial decisions and take unhealed grief into new business environments

22:53 - An example of a leader I work with who was posting 47 times a week just to validate her identity

28:22 - Why you can't develop true leaders or duplicate belief while wearing a mask, leading to a team that depends entirely on your energy until the system breaks

32:13 - Why returning to a LOVE-LED™ business model actually doesn't require learning anything new

496: The Four Leadership Masks

495: Why Success Feels Heavier Than It Should

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