Beyond the Facade with Choose Recovery Services

5: Love With Boundaries - the Ideal Relationship Approach


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Have you ever wondered if your parenting approach is actually helping or harming your child’s development? This week Luke outlines four parenting styles and the impact they can have. Learn the worst combination of traits for parents to embody and how “making it about them” can revolutionize your relationships for the better.

Takeaways

  • There are four core parenting styles: permissive, firm, hostile, and loving.

  • Healthy boundaries are critical.

  • Small mindset shifts create big impacts in nurturing connections.

  • Chapters

    • Introduction

    • 01:08 Permissive vs Firm

    • 01:35 Hostile vs Loving

    • 02:51 Worst Combination of Traits

    • 03:47 How This Relates to All Relationships

    • Don’t Miss This!

      • In-person Intensive: ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity⁠ - This is a three-day live intensive for men led by Alana and Luke Gordon. This program is designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on July 17-19, 2024. Learn more and register ⁠HERE⁠.

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        • Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men:

          • Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal.

          • Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

          • Choose 360 for Men - Support group for men who have reached a sense of wholeness in their recovery and are looking to maintain their recovery through awareness, accountability, and camaraderie.

          • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.

          • Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠ - This betrayal trauma support group is for men who have been betrayed. They will receive resources to recover from betrayal trauma while being surrounded by a supportive community.

          • Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services:

            • Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma.

              • Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery.

              • Healing Hearts - This group is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.

              • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

              • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

              • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

              • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.

              • Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

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