5 REASONS YOU SHOULDN’T PARTNER WITH NEGATIVE PEOPLE

1.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ACTUALLY DON’T KNOW HOW TO DO RELATIONSHIPS.

A successful relationship is two are more people coming into agreement.

Chronically unhappy people tend to be out of agreement with life itself.

They are ungracious.

They are ungrateful.

They have no appreciation for the good that is around them.

Such a person has true inclination to be gracious towards other humans, to be thankful for the good that others bring into their life.  

If a person seem determined to not come into agreement with you or with life, you will not have a successful connection with them.

2.  NEGATIVE PEOPLE ARE DREAM KILLERS

To be negative is to be negative about the future.

I would in fact define whether a person is officially negative or not by this particular metric : WHAT’S THEIR ATTITUDE TOWARDS THE FUTURE — THIER OWN FUTURE AND THE WORLD’S FUTURE?

If a person is future-forward, they are not negative.

Those who are negative people by this definition — don’t ever share your future plans with these people.  They will do their utmost to snuff your flame.

3.  YOU WILL FAIL AS A ROMANTIC PARTNER WITH THEM.

This particular point applies even more to men than women.  We all have the desire to please our partner, but men feel this metric at an even deeper level.  When our woman is happy, we feel like kings.  When she is unhappy, it lands in us as failure.

Pick a woman who is chronically unhappy, and you set yourself to being and feeling like a chronic failure.

4.  THEIR NEGATIVITY IS OFTEN MALEVOLENT

Maybe there is a small number of negative and pessimistic people who just live their sully ives in the corner, but most people who are future-negative are deeply envious of others who are optimistic, future-forward, creative, endeavoring, taking chances, succeeding.

Be double careful of inviting such malevolent energy into your creation and production circle.  They are saboteurs.

5.  AS YOUR PARTNER, THE NEGATIVE PERSON IS ROOTING FOR YOUR FAILURE

A truly negative person cannot tolerate progress and success anywhere.  They won’t make an exception for you even if you are married to them.

The very core purpose of a good relationship ought to be that the two people are rooting for each other.  You are a stand for each other.  You want the other to succeed and thrive.  If you can’t say this about yourself, you suck as a partner and your other will suffer because of it, and vice versa.

— Om Rupani

www.OmRupani.org