We are so grateful to welcome our guest, Bonny Burns to the show today to talk about the important topic of sexual reintegration. We talk about sexual wouding and its impact on individuals. We delve into the shame that often comes up for both spouses and its affects on self-esteem and intimacy. We highligh the importance of acknowledging and addressing shame as a crucial step towards healing and reintegration.  We give some examples of how to handle triggers and create safety for couples who are ready to attempt sexual reintegration. We hope you enjoy this episode! If you want to connect with Bonny, you can read more about her and find a link to web site below:

About Bonny Burns

Bonny's professional career began as a Christian sexuality educator, writing and speaking on the popular podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives (over 1.7 M downloads). The trajectory of her career morphed as her third discovery day came to light. Bonny has a BS in Christian counseling from Liberty University, is an ICF credentialed coach and is an APSATS certified partner coach. She is co-host of the podcast, Hope For Wives: Overcoming the Impact of Sexual Betrayal through a Christian Lens. She is on the Leadership Team of the Sarah Society, a free Christian peer-led support group for betrayed wives. Also, she is on the Betrayal Trauma Religious Leader committee of the APSATS organization.

Because of her background in healthy sexuality, Bonny leads a class twice a year called, "Sexual Clarity for Christian Women: Reclaiming your sexual identity after betrayal."

If you want to learn more the courses and group she offers or to work with Bonny, you can check out her website: strongwives.com

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Hali Roderick- TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate

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Stephanie Hamby- MCLC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM Candidate

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Choosing To Stay Webinar: Join Hali as she teaches this monthly free webinar for those Choosing To Stay after infidelity and betrayal.

Help. Her. Heal. for Men - Hali Roderick helps men learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Participants will receive weekly exercises and worksheets to help them gain the skills to begin healing a broken relationship. 

Empowerment After Betrayal for Men - Hali Roderick leads a betrayal trauma support group for men who have been betrayed where they can gain tools and resources to recover from betrayal trauma in a healthy way while being surrounded by a supportive community. 

Healing Hearts Couples Group - Stephanie Hamby leads Healing Hearts Live Group  a supportive community for couples seeking healing after betrayal and infidelity, emphasizing the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy, offering practical tools, skills, and a nurturing community to navigate challenges and foster relational growth.

Choose Renewal Group for women: Stephanie Hamby leads Choose Renewal: For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior. Our focus is on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out. This group aims to provide a safe, nurturing community where women can find support and guidance on their journey towards renewal.

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