You've been told that confidence is an inside job — go inward, believe in yourself, hype yourself up, and then go do the thing. But what if that kind of confidence is fragile and incomplete? 

In this episode, I'm offering a fundamentally different model of confidence — one that you don't have to generate at all.

Listen to hear more about:

• The critical lesson that The Lion King (yes, the Disney movie) teaches about confidence that the entire self-help industry gets wrong
• The difference between individualistic confidence and relational confidence
• A concrete practice for the next time you're about to do something scary

If you've been white-knuckling your way through "I believe in myself" and wondering why it never quite holds, this episode will show you what will.