Beyond the Facade with Choose Recovery Services

7: Rebuilding Trust With Children After Betrayal - With Morgan Ellsworth


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Betrayal affects your partnership in countless ways, but have you thought about the profound impact on your kids? This powerful episode brings that often overlooked perspective to light through guest Morgan Ellsworth’s personal experience and professional expertise. Morgan is a coach at Choose Recovery Services and is passionate about helping individuals process and heal from betrayal trauma.

Morgan provides invaluable insights into creating secure attachments and holding space for children’s emotions amidst the chaos of betrayal trauma. This is a must-listen for any parent struggling with how to show up and support their kids through this immense challenge.

Takeaways

  • Children experience similar betrayal trauma emotions as the betrayed spouse.

  • Consistency and making repairs are crucial for rebuilding trust.

  • Meet kids where they’re at through empathy and curiosity.

  • Allow space for kids’ anger and grief. 

  • Chapters

    • 02:08 Morgan’s Background

    • 03:29 Challenges Fathers Face in Supporting Their Children

    • 07:53 Strategies for Engaging Children

      • 17:04 Navigating Early Recovery and Parenting

      • 28:59 Information About Morgan’s Class Geared Toward Teens

      • 29:52 Information About Morgan’s Class For Adult Children

      • Learn more about Morgan and book a complimentary consultation

        Don’t Miss This!

        • In-person Intensive: ⁠Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity⁠ - This is a three-day live intensive for men led by Alana and Luke Gordon. This program is designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves. Intensive will be held in Spanish Fork, UT on July 17-19, 2024. Learn more and register ⁠HERE⁠.

        • Connect With Us:

          • Learn more about Luke here

          • Schedule a complimentary consultation here.

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          • Wanting more? Choose Recovery Services offers many courses specifically for men:

            • Choose 90 for Men - Support group for men who are ready to take the first step towards recovery from compulsive behavior, infidelity and/or betrayal.

            • Choose 180 for Men - This support group helps men gain emotional intelligence so they can better manage unwanted behaviors. Participants will connect with other men, better understand their emotions, work through shame, and build a deep respect for themselves.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

              • Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication.

              • Empowerment After Betrayal for Men⁠ - This betrayal trauma support group is for men who have been betrayed. They will receive resources to recover from betrayal trauma while being surrounded by a supportive community.

              • Additional Resources from Choose Recovery Services:

                • Choose To Be Podcast - This podcast focuses on helping women heal from infidelity and betrayal trauma.

                  • Road to Recovery - Free monthly webinar with Luke and Alana Gordon for couples navigating the relational aspects that come along the road to recovery.

                  • Healing Hearts - This group is for couples seeking healing after betrayal. It emphasizes the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy.

                  • Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. First four weeks are free!

                  • Choose Renewal - For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior. Focus on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out in a safe, nurturing community.

                  • Resilient Teens - Ongoing support group for teens ages 15-18 whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage.

                  • Adult Children Uniting for Healing - Ongoing support group for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and who need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.

                  • Learn more and register for courses at chooserecoveryservices.com

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