Coaching for Leaders

776: Forge Connections That Help You Thrive, with Neri Karra Sillaman


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Neri Karra Sillaman: Pioneers

Neri Karra Sillaman is a refugee-turned-entrepreneur, academic, and author whose work focuses on the importance of resilience, purpose, and vision in business and in life. She is the recipient of the Thinkers50 Radar Award, an entrepreneurship expert at the University of Oxford, and the founder of Neri Karra, a global luxury leather goods brand. She is the author of Pioneers: 8 Principles of Business Longevity from Immigrant Entrepreneurs (Amazon, Bookshop)*.

We all know that the right connections can help in our careers, but how do we actually get more intentional about forging the connections that will be most meaningful and sustainable? In this conversation, Neri and I explore the key lessons from immigrant entrepreneurs and how their successes can help us all thrive.

Key Points
  • Robins and titmice have vastly different outcomes because of their divergent abilities for flocking. Social capital is critical for success.
  • Diversity brings many strengths – and it also introduces new challenges for connection. We can’t as easily rely on connections through traditional cultures or experiences.
  • All of us have the ability to forge connections based on value. This is perhaps the most powerful homophily tie and accessible to everyone.
  • The most successful immigrant entrepreneurs don’t rely on connections happening automatically and also don’t assume that relationships will be static.
  • Focus on what unites you with others. Strengthen ties with other networks to avoid the risk of communities that are too insular.
  • Be proactive and generous in sharing information and ideas to support others.
  • Resources Mentioned
    • Pioneers: 8 Principles of Business Longevity from Immigrant Entrepreneurs by Neri Karra Sillaman (Amazon, Bookshop)*
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