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793. Are Women Too Successful for Love? The Truth Behind The Modern Dating Crisis


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In this episode, K+L sit down with relationship expert + Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury, to decode the new era of dating. We’re diving into modern love, gender roles, and what’s driving the “masculinity crisis”—and trust us, you’ve never heard it explained like this.


If you’re wondering why finding a great man feels impossible—or if your standards are too high—get ready for an epiphany. Logan shares data-driven wisdom on emotional intelligence, the myths around “the spark,” and why so many successful women thrive everywhere but love.


Logan gets candid about conscious partnership, personal growth, and the spiritual lessons hidden in swiping culture. This episode is your invitation to leave behind outdated paradigms, raise your standards, and create the kind of soul-stretching relationships you actually deserve!


We also talk about:

  • Why there aren’t “enough” good men out there 
  • How gender expectations are shifting
  • How to avoid playing “therapist” or “mom” in dating
  • Letting go of your “checklist” for love
  • How to spot a “slow burn” vs. chasing sparks
  • Modern dating app hacks that really work
  • Navigating anxious vs. avoidant attachment styles
  • Building chemistry + spiritual connection with someone
  • Women’s independence, fertility conversations + “hypergamy”
  • Tips for sustainable dating—so you don’t burn out

  • Resources:

    • Website: https://loganury.com
    • Instagram: @loganury
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