Playing With Fire

88 How do I build sensual & sexual desire?


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Do you wish desire just magically ramped up without any effort? It certainly does sometimes, but most of the time desire flows better because we actively FUEL desire. This week we're talking about the things that block your access to desire and what to do about those blocks. 

Desire does not have to be elusive, so if you struggle here rest assured it is 100% normal to need to learn the skills of building desire in yourself and in your relationships.

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Link to the research on responsive desire by Bancroft & Janssen 

See also: Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski


Are you ready to have an unconventional love? Take this 2 minute quiz and see!

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Playing With FireBy Joli Hamilton

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