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In this episode of Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal, we explore the critical role of self-advocacy in the healing process. Recovery is a deeply personal journey, and learning to advocate for yourself—whether with professionals, your spouse, or even with yourself—is essential for moving forward. Join us as we dive into:
Thank you for tuning in!
We’re here to support couples healing from infidelity and betrayal, offering encouragement, practical skills, and expertise each week. As certified relational recovery coaches, we are passionate about guiding you toward hope, empathy, and lasting healing.
Stay connected with us and access all the resources we offer—coaching sessions, groups, and more—by visiting this link.
Your Hosts:
Hali Roderick
Certified Relational Recovery Coach
TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM-C
Stephanie Hamby
Certified Relational Recovery Coach
MCLC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-C
We look forward to journeying with you!
Trusting Your Gut
Understanding Intuition: How to recognize your inner voice amidst the noise of emotions and external opinions.
Distinguishing Fear from Intuition: Strategies to differentiate between instinctive knowing and fear-based reactions.
Rebuilding Self-Trust: Practical steps to regain confidence in your decision-making after betrayal.
Advocating with Your Professional Team
Selecting the Right Professionals: Choosing therapists, coaches, or support groups that align with your values and needs.
Clear Communication: How to articulate your goals, boundaries, and expectations with professionals.
Evaluating Progress: Knowing when a professional relationship is working or when it's time to seek a new perspective.
Advocating with Your Spouse
Setting Boundaries: Communicating your needs clearly and respectfully without guilt or hesitation.
Creating Space for Open Dialogue: Establishing times and ways to discuss your feelings and progress.
Navigating Pushback: Handling resistance or defensiveness from your partner while standing firm in your needs.
Advocating with Yourself
Defining Your Non-Negotiables: Identifying what you need to heal and sticking to it.
Practicing Self-Compassion: Giving yourself permission to prioritize your well-being without shame.
Holding Yourself Accountable: Balancing self-advocacy with consistent effort in your healing journey.
Overcoming External Pressures
Managing Well-Meaning Advice: How to deal with unsolicited opinions from friends, family, or society.
Resisting People-Pleasing Tendencies: Staying aligned with your needs rather than others' expectations.
Focusing on Your Unique Path: Emphasizing that your recovery process is not one-size-fits-all.
Encouraging Listeners
Affirmation of Strength: Acknowledge their courage in advocating for themselves.
Call to Action: Small steps they can take today to practice self-advocacy, such as journaling or having a candid conversation.
This episode will empower you to stand up for yourself and trust that you know what is best for your healing process. Whether you're just starting or are well into your journey, these insights and strategies will help you take ownership of your recovery.
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In this episode of Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal, we explore the critical role of self-advocacy in the healing process. Recovery is a deeply personal journey, and learning to advocate for yourself—whether with professionals, your spouse, or even with yourself—is essential for moving forward. Join us as we dive into:
Thank you for tuning in!
We’re here to support couples healing from infidelity and betrayal, offering encouragement, practical skills, and expertise each week. As certified relational recovery coaches, we are passionate about guiding you toward hope, empathy, and lasting healing.
Stay connected with us and access all the resources we offer—coaching sessions, groups, and more—by visiting this link.
Your Hosts:
Hali Roderick
Certified Relational Recovery Coach
TICC, PCC, APSATS CPC-Candidate, ERCEM-C
Stephanie Hamby
Certified Relational Recovery Coach
MCLC, ACC, APSATS CPC, ERCEM-C
We look forward to journeying with you!
Trusting Your Gut
Understanding Intuition: How to recognize your inner voice amidst the noise of emotions and external opinions.
Distinguishing Fear from Intuition: Strategies to differentiate between instinctive knowing and fear-based reactions.
Rebuilding Self-Trust: Practical steps to regain confidence in your decision-making after betrayal.
Advocating with Your Professional Team
Selecting the Right Professionals: Choosing therapists, coaches, or support groups that align with your values and needs.
Clear Communication: How to articulate your goals, boundaries, and expectations with professionals.
Evaluating Progress: Knowing when a professional relationship is working or when it's time to seek a new perspective.
Advocating with Your Spouse
Setting Boundaries: Communicating your needs clearly and respectfully without guilt or hesitation.
Creating Space for Open Dialogue: Establishing times and ways to discuss your feelings and progress.
Navigating Pushback: Handling resistance or defensiveness from your partner while standing firm in your needs.
Advocating with Yourself
Defining Your Non-Negotiables: Identifying what you need to heal and sticking to it.
Practicing Self-Compassion: Giving yourself permission to prioritize your well-being without shame.
Holding Yourself Accountable: Balancing self-advocacy with consistent effort in your healing journey.
Overcoming External Pressures
Managing Well-Meaning Advice: How to deal with unsolicited opinions from friends, family, or society.
Resisting People-Pleasing Tendencies: Staying aligned with your needs rather than others' expectations.
Focusing on Your Unique Path: Emphasizing that your recovery process is not one-size-fits-all.
Encouraging Listeners
Affirmation of Strength: Acknowledge their courage in advocating for themselves.
Call to Action: Small steps they can take today to practice self-advocacy, such as journaling or having a candid conversation.
This episode will empower you to stand up for yourself and trust that you know what is best for your healing process. Whether you're just starting or are well into your journey, these insights and strategies will help you take ownership of your recovery.
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