Coming up on this episode of Flirtations, we welcome Lola Jean, a multifaceted sex educator, fetish wrestler, and world record holder to the show for a conversation about sexual confidence, empowerment, and freedom!

We'll explore whether sexual confidence is an innate gift or a skill that can be developed (hint:  if you don’t feel like or aren’t sure you got it, Lola Jean is so here for you).

We'll also hear about common obstacles that can keep us from feeling sexually confident and Lola Jean shares strategies for empowering our sexual selves (one of the keys may lie in self pleasure 😛).

Also up for discussion are practical communication tools for the bedroom, ways to overcome shame, and how you can create sexy eye contact, even if that makes you nervous!

Finally, we’ll explore sex appeal and sensuality, the role of validation in sex, and break down the differences between kinks and fetishes. 

So, if you're ready to get real, have some fun, and learn how to unleash your sexual power, then this episode is for you!

Let’s do this, Flirties, and meet Lola Jean!

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About our guest:  Lola Jean is a Sex Educator, Fetish Wrestler, headmistress of 7 Days of Domination, and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve.

Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality, and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. You can find more on her classes, work and upcoming projects at lolajean.com and on most social media platforms at Take the Quiz and Search Courses!

More on the 7 Days of Domination video series here.

About your host:  Benjamin is a flirt and dating coach sharing his love of flirting and BFE - big flirt energy - with the world! A lifelong introvert and socially anxious member of society, Benjamin now helps singles and daters alike flirt with more confidence, clarity, and fun!

As the flirt is all about connection, Benjamin helps the flirt community (the Flirties!) date from a place that allows the value of connection in all forms - platonic, romantic, and with the self - to take center stage.

Ultimately, this practice of connection helps flirters and daters alike create stronger relationships, transcend limiting beliefs, and develop an unwavering love for the self.

His work has been featured in Fortune, NBC News, The Huffington Post, and Yoga Journal.

You can connect with Benjamin on Instagram, TikTok, stream the Flirtations Flirtcast everywhere you listen to podcasts (like right here!), and find out more about working together 1:1 here.