The Hey, Girlfriend Podcast

94. You Don’t Need Him—It’s Not Love, It’s Manipulation


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You think you’re in love with him… but what if it’s just a trauma bond?

In this video, I’m breaking down how love bombing and manipulation made me believe I needed a man who was never good for me. If you’re feeling stuck, confused, or emotionally addicted to someone who’s been giving mixed signals and false promises, this is for you.

Let’s talk about the difference between real love and toxic attachment — and how to finally break free.


✨ You don’t need him like you think you do.

✨ You’re not in love — you’re trauma bonded.

✨ Here’s how to take your power back & choose yourself.


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