Welcome to another episode of 'After the Affair' with your host, Luke Shillings. In this episode, titled "The Want Match: Aligning Desires After Betrayal," we explore the concept of the "Want Match," which focuses on aligning the desires and needs of both partners in a relationship.

This episode delves into how recognising and understanding these wants can create a more balanced and fulfilling partnership.

Luke shares practical steps to identify, communicate, and navigate these desires, along with relatable examples to illustrate the concept.

Key Topics Discussed:

1. Understanding the Want Match Concept:

• Explanation of the "Want Match" concept.

• Importance of making a detailed list of your desires in a relationship.

• How to share your desires openly with your partner.

• Determining which desires align naturally.

• Discussing the importance of genuine willingness to compromise.

• Finding ways to fulfill desires that cannot be met within the relationship.

• The importance of periodically revisiting the "want match" list.

• Recognizing that not all desires will be perfectly met.

Listener Takeaways:

• Understand Your Needs: Learn to identify and communicate your own desires in a relationship.

Reflective Question:

How can you and your partner better communicate and align your desires to create a more fulfilling relationship?

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