2021 is rapidly ending and with it a tough and scary year. But as 2022 opens up and things look increasingly uncertain, we all need to buckle up and dig in to fortify ourselves for the work ahead. With that being said, the work we do to extricate ourselves from our narcissist is the work we must do first before we can help others. Like putting on the oxygen mask first in a plane or putting on an asbestos suit before entering a burning building. We save ourselves so we can rescue other victims. So after seeing all the red flags and ending up paralyzed in a dream bubble of delusion, it is time to snap out of it and face the reality that demands our attention. And yes, the narcissist is like your heroin or cryptonite of whatever poison you can imagine. It is lethal. It will kill you. You must let them go and cleanse any trace of them. As 2022 begins, we have hard work to do. . . but I think we can do it. Let's go, guys!!