A Man's Journey Through Divorce

A Man's Journey Through Divorce

By Steven Schleupner, CFP® CDFA® CDC® ChFC®Society & CultureRelationships
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A Man's Journey Through Divorce episodes

  • Ep. 118 Moving Beyond Anger to Find Closure (Premier)
    In this insightful episode, we delve into the emotional journey of divorce, starting with the often intense feelings of anger that initiate the process. Anger, while a powerful catalyst for change, can also hinder our ability to fully transition and find closure. Drawing on concepts from William Bridges' seminal book, Transitions, we explore how many divorcees struggle to complete the "Ending" phase due to unresolved anger.

    Join us as we discuss the importance of looking beneath the surface of anger to uncover the underlying sadness. By addressing this deeper emotion, we can begin to accept the divorce, allowing ourselves to truly complete the ending phase and move forward. Whether you're going through a divorce, know someone who is, or are simply interested in the psychology of major life transitions, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for achieving emotional resolution and finding peace.



    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    13 min
  • Ep 117 Allowing the Past to Influence Your Choice Now (Premier)
    In this podcast episode, we explore the transformative power of asking, "What would love do now?" during the challenging experience of divorce. Through personal stories and practical advice, we delve into how this guiding question can help you make positive choices, practice forgiveness, and turn pain into a journey of healing and growth. Join us as we uncover ways to navigate divorce with grace, embrace love in non-traditional forms, and create a foundation for a brighter future.
    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success.




    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    13 min
  • Ep 116 Shifting Your Divorce Through the 7 Universal Laws
    In this enlightening episode, we delve into the transformative power of divorce, often viewed only as a challenging phase, but actually a profound opportunity for personal growth and change. Our discussion centers around how the application of universal laws can not only help you navigate your divorce with resilience but also enable you to adopt a proactive strategy for positive transformation in your life.

    We explore the seven universal laws starting with the Law of Mentalism, emphasizing that everything begins in the mind; what you envision, you can manifest. The Law of Correspondence tells us that our external reality reflects our internal state, setting the stage for understanding how our thoughts influence our life trajectory. The Law of Vibration reminds us that everything is energy and resonates at specific frequencies, which attracts like energies—highlighting the importance of maintaining a positive energy even in tough times.

    We also discuss the Law of Cause and Effect and how this plays out in the dynamics of relationship conflicts, the Law of Polarity and its role in overcoming self-sabotage through understanding, and the Law of Rhythm that teaches us to find peace in the natural cycles of life. The Law of Gender emphasizes the balance of masculine and feminine energies within us, crucial for holistic healing during and after a divorce.

    Finally, we walk through the Sequence of Transformation—how watching your thoughts, words, actions, habits, and ultimately your character, can lead to a destiny filled with positivity and prosperity. This episode is packed with insights on making your divorce a pathway to a stronger, wiser you. Join us to discover how to plant the seeds of your desired destiny during one of life’s most significant transitions. 



    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.
     
    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    35 min
  • Ep 115 Taking Control of Divorce Decisions Through Mediation (Premier)
    In this episode, we explore the transformative potential of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR), particularly mediation, in divorce proceedings. While litigation offers a formal trial, ADR methods provide couples with greater control over the process. However, success in mediation relies on proactive engagement and addressing underlying conflicts. A recent client's story highlights common pitfalls, emphasizing the importance of thorough preparation and communication. True empowerment in divorce comes from taking responsibility for actions and decisions. By embracing mediation with commitment, individuals can shape a smoother transition and a more fulfilling post-divorce future.




    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    12 min
  • Ep 114 Ending with Un-Equal Fears (Premier)
    In this episode, we unravel the complexities of divorce fear and the transformative power of personalized support. Delving into the concept of weak spots, we uncover how these areas of vulnerability can hinder our journey through divorce. From the illusion of security surrounding material possessions to the importance of action-based and supernatural faith, we explore strategies to navigate fear and uncertainty. Joined by a specialized divorce coach, we discuss the pivotal role of personalized support in identifying and addressing these fears, offering actionable strategies for a seamless transition. Tune in to gain insights on overcoming divorce fear and unlocking a sense of peace and empowerment through personalized divorce support.



    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    16 min
  • Ep 113 Building Immunity to Pain
    Explore the profound insights uncovered in this podcast episode as we delve into the transformative journey of healing emotional pain during divorce. Discover strategies to navigate conflict, elevate relationships, and enhance financial acumen for a brighter future. Tune in for empowering guidance on creating the divorce outcome you truly desire.



    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    34 min
  • Ep. 112 Making the Most Progress in the Shortest Amount to Time (Premier)
    In this episode of our divorce podcast, host Steve challenges the instinct to rely solely on thriftiness during major life changes such as divorce, emphasizing the importance of investing in oneself instead. He explores strategies for elevating personal and relationship capacities swiftly, even amidst the timeline and procedural intricacies of divorce. Tune in as we discover how to shift from thriftiness to strategic investment, ensuring not just stability but growth during transformative life events.




    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    16 min
  • Ep. 111 Setting Aspirations
    In this episode, listen to Steve talk about the three stages of personal transition and the transition a couple makes as they divorce. Steve emphasizes the importance of setting aspirations for each type of transition—personal and relationship. He explores how these aspirations can guide you through the emotional and procedural complexities of divorce, helping you to emerge stronger and more fulfilled. Tune in to gain valuable insights and strategies for navigating personal and relationship transitions during this transformative period.



    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    34 min
  • Ep 110 Alternative Divorce Options (Premier)
    In this episode, Steve explores the various paths to obtaining a final divorce decree, comparing the traditional litigation route with alternative methods such as mediation, pro-se (or kitchen table), and arbitration. He delves into the drawbacks many encounter with litigation, which often leads to regret, and highlights the rising prevalence of Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) methods. Steve shares both the benefits and weaknesses of these alternative approaches, offering valuable insights to help you choose the best path for your divorce.




    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.
     
    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    15 min
  • Ep. 109 Why is this so Friggin' Hard? (Premier)
    In this episode, you ask, “Why is this so friggin’ hard?” Is it? Arguing against the truth is hard. Resisting things that you wish were different is hard. Becoming aware of how you create self-imposed suffering is simple. In this episode, Steve talks about struggle and its purpose and brings to light the lessons inside the toxic dance within a couple.




    Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

    To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

    For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

    If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
    In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
    Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
    Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

    Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.
    15 min

About A Man's Journey Through Divorce

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"A Man's Journey Through Divorce" is a podcast dedicated to helping those navigating the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of divorce. Hosted by Steve Schleupner, Divorce Transition…

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