A Man's Journey Through Divorce

After three years and over 100 coaching episodes, A Man's Journey Through Divorce returns with an exciting relaunch and a fresh new direction.

While the original episodes’ straightforward advice on common divorce challenges resonated with listeners, I'm now expanding the show to include professional guest experts and anonymous stories from men going through divorce. It's a chance for us to explore specific areas of expertise—and to do some live coaching around real issues men are facing right now.

New episodes drop every Monday. Two episodes each month will be interviews, while the other two will continue the solo coaching format you've come to know.

I'm excited about this new chapter, and I can't wait to bring you even more helpful perspectives and stories to help you deal with your divorce.

In this episode, Steve Schleupner is joined by Dr. Stacey Betancourt, a specialist in brain development and childhood trauma, to discuss how children process the divorce transition based on their developmental stages. Together, they explore the critical role of stability, consistency, and co-parenting in helping children navigate the emotional and psychological challenges of divorce. Dr. Betancourt shares insights into how a child's brain evolves from birth through adolescence, emphasizing the importance of parental behavior, communication, and structure during this turbulent time. Steve reflects on his own experiences and discusses the pitfalls of co-parenting, the challenges of maintaining stability across households, and the potential impact of parentification on children. The episode concludes with actionable advice for parents to support their children's well-being and foster resilience through a thoughtful, unified approach.

Creating an Effective Parenting Plan is one of the most challenging aspects of divorce, and when not done thoughtfully, it can lead to significant post-divorce conflicts. In this episode, I sit down with Tina Keyes, a Florida Supreme Court Certified Family Mediator, Certified Divorce Coach®, Certified Co-Parenting Specialist, and Trauma-Informed Certified Coach. Tina shares her expertise in helping parents of minor children navigate their co-parenting relationships with reduced stress, conflict, and legal expenses. We explore how to prioritize parenting plans in mediation, common oversights parents make when crafting these agreements, and best practices for creating and implementing successful plans. Tina also delves into how contentiousness impacts parenting negotiations, the harmful use of children as pawns in divorce, and strategies to prevent such dynamics. Tune in for invaluable insights from a seasoned expert dedicated to making divorce less traumatic for families.

In this episode, I sit down with Junie Moon, a transformative love coach and expert in shadow work, to explore the complexities of starting over in a new relationship after divorce. Together, we discuss the importance of navigating the phases of transition—Ending, Neutral Zone, and New Beginning—and why so many people rush into new relationships without healing. Junie sheds light on the distinct ways men and women prepare for love, the transformative power of shadow work, and how to shift from relationships based on need to those of purpose. We also tackle the challenge of balancing the thrill of new romance with the demands of parenting, self-care, and work, while maintaining healthy boundaries. Whether you're ready to dive back into dating or just starting to heal, this conversation offers invaluable insights for creating a love that lasts.

Check out the Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

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In this podcast episode, I host LauraAura, a dynamic mindset coach, speaker, and host of The Gutsy Podcast. Together, they explore the challenges and opportunities divorcees face when seeking transformative change during a tumultuous period. Laura shares her insights on navigating the “Messy Middle,” the uncertain space between letting go of the past and stepping into a new future, and offers practical advice for identifying the right path when everything feels unclear. The conversation highlights spiritual paradoxes, like "slow down to speed up," and how they play a crucial role in creating meaningful, gutsy transformations. Laura also discusses the courage required to pursue a life that feels alive, even when met with resistance from loved ones, emphasizing the importance of silencing external noise to embrace true desires. The episode is an empowering guide for anyone ready to step out of their comfort zone and into a life of authenticity and fulfillment.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

In this episode, Steve is joined by Cherie Morris, a lawyer-turned-coach specializing in divorce mediation, co-parenting, and blended family coaching. Together, they dive into the complexities of co-parenting post-separation and explore ways to achieve better outcomes for children amidst contentious dynamics. Cherie offers insights into overcoming the myth that courts can fix co-parenting struggles, the challenges faced by couples who struggled as co-parents during marriage, and the added stress when a new partner enters the family dynamic. Steven and Cherie also tackle issues of triangulation and provide practical advice for step-parents navigating co-parenting roles. Cherie’s expertise shines as she shares strategies to help families transition to healthier, more collaborative co-parenting.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

In this episode, I reflect on key patterns observed over the past three years with men navigating divorce, and share insight why the common challenges exist. Many listeners describe long-standing "invisible divorces," feeling trapped in unhappy, often sexless marriages for the sake of family or finances. Upon being left, they’re blindsided by feelings of betrayal and unfairness, especially in cases involving parent alienation or financial strain. Men who initiate divorce face guilt and the desire for an amicable split, often met with resistance. Across the board, men seek validation quickly in new relationships, struggle with financial worries, and need short-term, focused support to push through. As we close out 2024, I’m excited to announce a refreshed podcast format launching on December 23—featuring higher-quality audio and video episodes, with monthly guests offering both professional insights and real-life divorce stories.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

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In this episode, I sat down with Carol McKelvey, an experienced therapist and family mediator, to explore the complex issue of parental alienation from her unique vantage point. Carol, who has spent much of her career in behavioral health, transitioned into mediation to support families through divorce with an insightful, balanced approach. We delved into the subtler tactics of parental alienation—behaviors that often go unnoticed in court or mediation. Carol shared her perspective on how even subtle actions, like undermining the other parent's decisions in front of children, constitute alienation, and why these less overt forms can be particularly damaging. She offered practical advice for parents facing alienation on how to effectively advocate for their interests in mediation, along with insights on how the dynamic shifts when legal counsel is present. Throughout, Carol emphasized her role in restoring harmony when tensions run high, underscoring the importance of mediators in helping families reach resolutions that serve the best interests of everyone, especially the children.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

Feeling financially trapped in marriage is a growing concern for couples who want to divorce but face the harsh reality of supporting two households. This episode explores how the cost of living—beyond just inflation—creates financial stress, impacting time, energy, health, and family prosperity. By breaking down real-life situations, from those barely getting by to couples who seem well-off but face financial tightness, this episode emphasizes the importance of assessing your financial situation early. Discover how taking proactive steps can transform the trap into an opportunity for better planning and a more amicable post-divorce life.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

For additional divorce support visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon, as well as online divorce support courses in the Patreon Shop.

If you are looking to make quick, targeted progress, consider a one of our 90-minute navigation sessions. You can schedule them here:
In the early stages of divorce? Early Divorce Navigation Session.
Challenges post-divorce? Post-Divorce Navigation Session.
Preparing for mediation or a hearing? Mediation and Court Mindset Navigation Session.

Find my poetry book Spirit Poems on Amazon.

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Gary Salyer, transformational relationship mentor and author of Safe to Love Again: How to Release the Pain of Past Relationships and Create the Love You Deserve. Together, we unpack the concept of the "Invisible Divorce," examining why so many couples allow their relationships to drift into this space without actively working on the issues. We dive into the crucial moment of accepting when a marriage isn't working, explore how "relationship rights" are often infringed upon—leading to the breakdown of trust—and discuss the painful topics of betrayal and how to regain trust safely to open the door to future relationships. Lastly, we cover how to avoid repeating past relationship mistakes, setting the foundation for healthier connections moving forward. If you're looking for a deeper understanding of these critical relationship dynamics, this episode is for you.

To enjoy the remainder of this Premier Episode visit our Divorce Support Center on Patreon.  New subscribers pay just $3/month, after a 7-day free trial, for my full body of podcast episodes and exclusive community events.

Transform your divorce experience for long-term success. Learn how to manage conflict, elevate relationship dynamics, and enhance financial savvy. Visit www.youtreecoaching.com now, or schedule a free consultation to determine what services might benefit you.