Today, John opens up about the emotional complexity of leaving Los Angeles for a new chapter in Costa Rica. He delves into the ideas of the "remembering self" and the "experiencing self," revealing how our memories often shape — and sometimes distort — the way we make decisions.

I'm running a 7-Day "Done with the Bullsh*t" Detox  — this isn't the kind with green juice and caffeine withdrawals. It's a soul-level cleanse.

Here’s what you’ll detox each day:

Day 1: Cancel old contracts — the silent agreements you never meant to make.

Day 2: Break up with people-pleasing and reclaim your no.

Day 3: Unfollow the fantasy and stop chasing someone else’s timeline.

Day 4: Mute your inner critic and replace it with compassion.

Day 5: Cut out comparison and come back to your own path.

Day 6: Starve the reflex to fix everything — choose stillness instead.

Day 7: Fast from the noise and finally hear yourself again.

This isn’t about becoming someone new. It’s about coming home to who you’ve always been.

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