Therapy Works

Agony Aunties on Confronting Hidden Trauma


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In this episode, the Agony Aunties address a deeply sensitive and complex topic brought up by a listener who experienced childhood sexual abuse by her brother. They discuss the feelings of shame, confusion, and sadness that often accompany such trauma and emphasise the importance of seeking professional support, such as EMDR therapy. The hosts provide advice on discussing the event with trusted individuals, like a caring partner, and highlight the significance of understanding and processing the abuse before making any decisions about revealing it to family members. They also offer insights into preventing such situations and educating one's own children about consent and safe touch. 

Resources for Support: If you or someone you know has experienced trauma and needs support, the following organisations offer help:

  • SurvivorsUK
    Specialist support for men, boys, and non-binary people who have experienced sexual violence. www.survivorsuk.org
  • Helpline: 020 3598 3898 (Mon–Sun)
    • AMAZE.org
      Support and information for adolescents, families, and educators around sexual health and relationships.www.amaze.org


    • The Survivors Trust (UK)
      Umbrella charity for specialist rape and sexual abuse support services. www.thesurvivorstrust.org


    • Childline (UK)
      Confidential support for children and young people. www.childline.org.uk

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