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America’s Favorite Dating Expert, Bela Gandhi, on the Hottest Topics in Dating After Divorce on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #310


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America’s Favorite Dating Expert, Bela Gandi, returns to the podcast this week! Susan Guthrie welcomes Bela as she shares the three hottest topics in dating right now! 

This podcast episode gives listeners a refreshing take on today’s latest dating dynamics - from dating #beigeflags to video dating and everything in between. Bela offers an encouraging perspective about how to approach love with an open heart (and mind), value your time, and prioritize genuine connections over superficial victories.


Bela Gandhi is the founder of Smart Dating Academy and is a nationally acclaimed dating and relationship expert.  You’ve seen her on Good Morning America, TODAY, Kelly Clarkson, Steve Harvey, and many more news and media outlets. She has a viral TEDx about love and elevator people. Once you watch it, you will know that Bela is the very best of elevator people. She has been a guest with us many times before, and we’re thrilled that she’s here with us again today to talk all about hot topics in dating. 

Topics and Golden Nuggets include:

  • Bela explains beige flags and addresses whether or not a beige flag can turn into a red flag
  • Keep an open mind and cast your net out wide, “Love always comes in an unexpected package.”
  • Why Bela says “butterflies” aren’t typically a good thing in dating. 
  • Back to school, back to love?
  • Go on a video date first because your time is your most precious commodity.  Video dating is an amazing pre-qualifier!
  • Practice being grateful and gracious when a matchmaking setup is not a fit
  • The Barbie movie, The Ken Effect, and dating
  • “We’re not a date to win. We’re on a date to connect.”
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    About this week's special guest: Bela Gandhi

    Bela Gandhi of Smart Dating Academy is a nationally acclaimed dating & relationship expert.  SDA offers the best tips to start to date smarter to help you find real and lasting love.  Bela is a sought-after correspondent and works with all major networks including Good Morning America, Steve Harvey, NBC, Harry Connick Junior, Kelly Clarkson, ABC, FOX, CNN, JET, Essence, Forbes, WGN, and more.

    Bela’s website, Smart Dating Academy:  http://www.smartdatingacademy.com


    Also mentioned in this episode:
    Susan on Smart Dating Academy Podcast, The Unexpected #1 Relationship Killer: 46% of Divorced Couples Agree!

    Dealing with School Zones from Two Homes with Parenting Expert Christina McGhee

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