Narcissists and Sex: Porn Addiction and the Madonna Whore Complex (Narcissistic Abuse Recovery)

In today's video, I'm talking about how some narcissists have the Madonna Whore complex, which is defined officially as:

"the inability to maintain sexual arousal within a committed, loving relationship.[1] First identified by Sigmund Freud, under the rubric of psychic impotence,[2] this psychological complex is said to develop in men who see women as either saintly Madonnas or debased prostitutes. Men with this complex desire a sexual partner who has been degraded (the whore) while they cannot desire the respected partner (the Madonna).[3] Freud wrote: "Where such men love they have no desire and where they desire they cannot love."[4] Clinical psychologist Uwe Hartmann, writing in 2009, stated that the complex "is still highly prevalent in today's patients".[3]"

This relates to narcissists and sex, why they cheat and how they become addicted to porn. If you're dealing with (or have dealt with) an abusive narcissist with a porn addiction, this one's for you - no man or woman should ever have to put up with a partner who has pornography addiction issues. It's toxic to the soul, to say the very least.

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Sex & the Narcissist: 8 Shameful Secrets Narcissists Hope You'll Never Learn

In today's video, I'm finally going to break my silence on narcissists and their weird sex stuff. Nearly every client I've spoken to and MANY of my viewers and SPAN members have told me that they were sexually abused or at the very least, pushed very far outside their comfort zone regarding sex with a narcissist. Those who weren't directly abused were often neglected sexually, and in almost every case, narcissists will use sex (or withholding) as a way to manipulate you.

It's all about manipulation for a narcissist when it comes to sex. Narcissist have seriously shameful issues around sex, and that's what we're covering.

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How to Detach From Past Negative Experiences

How long do you carry the past with you when you've been abused by a narcissist in a toxic relationship? Do you still squirm when you think about how often you were the victim of gaslighting and manipulation, or even of domestic violence during your toxic relationship? Are you still fuming at your ex three years after she ran off with another man? As they say, "Pain is guaranteed, but suffering is optional."

These experiences are painful, but part of life. Suffering for years is your own doing. You have to do certain things to continue to feel bad about experiences that happened years ago. It's definitely a skill, just not a productive one.

Really want to thrive after abuse? Then letting go of the past is the right thing to do - it allows for more possibilities in the future - and that's exactly what these 7 tips will help you do.

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Loathe You Forever A Narcissistic Abuse Survivor Bedtime Story

What if Robert Munsch, author of the beloved children's book "Love you forever" had been the daughter of a narcissistic mother? In this video, I'll share how THAT bedtime story would've gone - only in this story, the daughter finds her way to peace and learns how to break the narcissistic abuse cycle for her own daughter.

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How to Beat a Narcissist in Court: 27 Divorce & Custody Tips for & by Narcissistic Abuse Survivors

Are you currently divorcing a narcissist, or thinking about it? Are you in the middle of a child custody case where you're fighting for custody with a narcissistic co-parent?

Today, I'm sharing more than 27 different tips rounded up from my YouTube comments as well as from my SPAN members that are all about how to beat a narcissist in court, whether you're dealing with divorce or you're just trying to get your child custody case resolved - whatever the case, there are certain things you can do and steps you can take to prevent a narcissistic ex from hurting you in court, and that's what this video is all about: exactly what these survivors did to beat the narcissist in court.

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This is a video compilation that covers Leaving an abusive narcissist, and then Surviving and Thriving After Toxic Marriage and/or long term relationships that have become toxic and mentally or verbally abusive. Plus, we'll cover some of what you're going to need when you hit divorce court - such as a good lawyer and the type of information yu need to gather for the judge.

This is a compilation video on divorcing a narcissist and covers leaving, getting through the hard times and fighting a narcissist in court, moving forward after divorce and getting in the last word.

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Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: vid.io/xoJJ - Divorcing a Narcissist: Compilation on Leaving, Surviving and Thriving After Abuse

This is a video compilation that covers Leaving an abusive narcissist, and then Surviving and Thriving After Toxic Marriage and/or long term relationships that have become toxic and mentally or verbally abusive. Plus, we'll cover some of what you're going to need when you hit divorce court - such as a good lawyer and the type of information yu need to gather for the judge.

This is a compilation video on divorcing a narcissist and covers leaving, getting through the hard times and fighting a narcissist in court, moving forward after divorce and getting in the last word.

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Discover. Understand. Overcome. It's how smart people change their lives! Subscribe to my channel: vid.io/xoJJ - Fart Jokes, Bad Narcissistic Actors and Sex Comedies: Comments & Advice from My YouTube Community

In today's vlog, I'll share several comments and bits of advice from my YouTube community's comments - including this one:

My personal professional advice as an actor with CPTSD NAS is to show up at a local non profit theater, preferably an ensemble group. If anything than to just participate in acting warm up exercises. Participating in theater is usually free! And the exercises are some of the same used in Dialectical and other Behavior therapies. The whole purpose of these exercises is to calm the flight or fight. It is to tune the "instrument," the body. It is to connect your body, mind, and breath all as one and requires you fully commit to tongue twisters, breath support, stretching, and mindfulness. You must combine all three. Relaxation exercises are great, but you want to be fully mindful of your surroundings, your body, and your breathing, not just breathing, but controlled breath...from the diaphragm. Mindfulness can be small imagery of expelling the dark for the light to a full blown Alexander Technique as a cool down after stretching and vocalizing on a supported breath. Only there is one hitch, theater attracts narcissists and not because they are good actors. Narcissists suck at acting as a performance art! Let me say that again, Narcissists are terrible actors!!! Narcissists are attracted to real actors for supply. It can make a person with CPTSD NAS vulnerable. Narcissists in an ensemble tend to avoid actual warm-ups and use uncomfortable improv games instead of bringing a performers instrument to 0, "blank slate." PS.. Did I mention narcissists are actually terrible actors. They can fake in real life, but when they get on stage they are exposed. Acting requires managing a deliberate juggling of mask objectives and core objectives which means the artist's true personality is raw and exposed, like a dry paint brush. Narcissists give a shallow, one layer, smug performance, and are totally dependent on spectacle (base behavior because they cannot tap the emotion that gives an audience their catharsis. You will find them doing comedy routines and using shock factor sex jokes and fart jokes because they a unable to trigger catharsis in their audience. ...They can't provide supply. :) They don't understand the emotion.

In the Go Ask Angie series, I respond "off the cuff" to questions, comments and concerns sent to me by my YouTube viewers, readers from my QueenBeeing.com site and those who reach out in other ways, such as by email.

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Preparing for Court With a Narcissist: How to be 10 Steps Ahead of Your Toxic Ex in Court

If you're divorcing a narcissist or preparing to divorce one, you might want to be prepared for court. In this video, I'll share tips to help you avoid getting screwed over by the narcissist in court.

If you're preparing to battle in court with your narcissist (soon to be ex narcissist), this video will offer important tips to help you stay 10 steps ahead of the toxic behavior.

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Got Screwed? Learn How to Spot a Sociopath Manipulator and Interrupt Their Pattern of Abuse

How do you spot a manipulator? How can you sniff out someone who is trying to screw you over? And what can you do to STOP someone from screwing you over?

Emotional and psychological manipulation can be incredibly devastating. Manipulators deliberately create an imbalance of power because this allows them to easily exploit you as a victim to serve his or her agenda. Manipulators play ingon your good intentions, insecurities, vulnerabilities and weaknesses in order to get what they want.

Did you know that psychologists estimate that only 4% of the population is classifiably sociopathological? Sounds like just a little number - but in just United States that's about 12 million Americans. Now it doesn't seem so small.

In today's edition of Psych Hacks, I'm going to teach you how to spot someone who is trying to manipulate you - one way is by using something called a pattern interrupt, which is a psychological hacking technique designed to change a particular thought, behavior or situation. Behavioral psychologists NLP techniques use this technique to literally interrupt and change thought patterns and behaviors..

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