In this powerful and eye-opening episode, Beth sits down with Dr. Margaret Rutherford, renowned clinical psychologist and author of Perfectly Hidden Depression, to uncover the surprising truth behind perfectionism—and how it can quietly mask deep emotional pain.

Ever felt like you're holding it all together on the outside while falling apart inside? You're not alone.

Beth opens up about her own struggles with societal pressure—the ticking clock on partnership, parenthood, and the illusion of "having it all." Together, she and Dr. Rutherford dive into how perfectionism can create emotional numbness, disconnection, and a silent suffering that’s often overlooked—even by those closest to us.

This conversation is a must-listen for high achievers, caregivers, and anyone who's ever felt trapped by the pressure to be perfect. You’ll walk away feeling seen, inspired, and empowered to embrace your story—mess and all.

We Also Talk About:

• The concept of "perfectly hidden depression" and its relation to perfectionism.
• The impact of societal pressures on individuals, particularly regarding timelines for partnership and parenthood.
• The distinction between constructive and destructive perfectionism.
• Characteristics and traits associated with perfectly hidden depression.
• The role of emotional intimacy and the challenges faced by individuals with perfectionism.
• The influence of social media on perceptions of perfectionism and mental health.
• The importance of self-awareness and recognizing harmful perfectionistic behaviors.
• The significance of vulnerability and transparency in personal relationships and therapy.
• Strategies for fostering deeper connections and honest conversations about emotions.
• The need to normalize discussions around mental health and the complexities of human emotions.

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