The Thais Gibson Podcast

Attachment Styles & Why We Attract the Same People


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In this enlightening episode, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of attachment styles, specifically focusing on why individuals with anxious attachment often find themselves drawn to those with avoidant attachment. Through engaging discussions, we explore the psychological underpinnings of this recurring pattern, shedding light on the subconscious comfort zones that drive these attractions.

Key Highlights:

  • Attachment Styles: Understanding the fundamental differences between anxious and avoidant attachment styles and how they interact in relationships.
  • Vicious Cycles: Analyzing the push-pull dynamics, often called the rubber band effect, characterizes anxious-avoidant relationships.
  • Primary Trigger Patterns: Delving into how core wounds and triggers perpetuate these relationship cycles.
  • Subconscious Comfort Zones: Revealing why we are attracted to familiar emotional patterns and how our relationships with ourselves influence these attractions.
  • Healing and Growth: Offering actionable insights into how individuals can break free from these cycles, foster self-awareness, and cultivate healthier relationships.


    Join Thais as she unpacks these concepts, offering a theoretical understanding and practical advice for anyone looking to transform their relational patterns and build more secure, fulfilling connections. Whether you're anxious, avoidant, or simply curious about attachment theory, this episode provides valuable takeaways to enhance your personal and relational well-being.

    Tune in now to better understand why we attract the same people and how to navigate these relationships toward a more positive and empowered direction.


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