Have you noticed a pattern of dating or attracting emotionally unavailable people? Do you find it difficult to open up with new friends or in potential relationships? In this episode, you'll hear Kimmy live coach Dawn, a self-described social butterfly who has no trouble having fun and attracting men, however you’ll be surprised to hear how her flirting has been used as a love shield to deflect her from going deeper in her interactions. As an proclaimed extrovert and waitress, Dawn is great at making sure everyone else is taken care of and focus on others, but often doesn't ensure her emotional needs are met. Now, she's come to Kimmy looking for help on how to create a fulfilling relationship that lasts. 

  EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Attracting The Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy   At the top, Kimmy shares three reasons why you may find yourself in emotionally unavailable relationships or situationships. Listen in to hear about how you may be unconsciusly recreating a pattern from your childhood or history in your current interactions. Often, we repeat relationship dynamics that are familiar to us. Kimmy and Dawn dig into Dawn's history to uncover some of the possible traces of this pattern for her. If you're like Dawn, you may have developed certain behaviors to protect yourself from getting hurt in the past. Kimmy talks through some simple first steps to notice and shift these behaviors to get a different result. You'll hear tips around expanding your social circle, the benefits of expressing your feelings early and often, and how to build up your self-worth so that you attract more opportunities for deeper connections.    And, if you're over 40 and find yourself feeling lost about how to navigate today's dating scene, come check out Kimmy's Flirt Workshop! Back by popular demand on October 11, Kimmy will gather both women and men together for an interactive virtual masterclass designed for folks in their 40s, 50s, and 60s to get back in the game!  So whether you are shy, feel awkward or have been out of the dating scene for awhile, you'll learn about the fundamentals of flirting so you can create irresistible chemistry, experience unforgettable first dates and have fun conversations! Space is limited. Register for your spot today: https://go.eliteimagemakeovers.com/flirting   EPISODE 213 of The Charisma Quotient Podcast is titled:  Attracting The Unavailable:  Coaching With Kimmy.  The Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Charisma Quotient Podcast is available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and many of your other favorite podcast channels. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ The Charisma Quotient Podcast: Building Confidence, Making Connections, and Finding Love from the Outside In is hosted by Kimmy Seltzer. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Kimmy Seltzer is a Confidence Therapist and Authentic Dating Strategist implementing targeted style, emotional and social intelligence to your life. ⁣ ************************************************⁣ Sharing a wide array of relational topics, The Charisma Quotient Podcast focuses on the themes of building confidence, making connections, and finding love from the outside in.⁣ ************************************************⁣ Would you like to connect with Kimmy?⁣ Website:  https://kimmyseltzer.com/⁣ Chat:  https://meetme.so/kimbreakthrough⁣ Instagram: @kimmyseltzer Twitter: @kimmyseltzer Join her FREE Facebook Group Love Makeover Insiders: https://www.facebook.com/groups