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Is marriage your ultimate goal? Have you been using the old method of “attracting” or “manifesting” your dream man by writing a list of his character traits? Has it worked?

In today’s episode, we dive into the powerful shift that happens when you stop focusing on finding a man and start becoming the kind of woman who creates the marriage of her dreams. I share each of these drastically different approaches that create certain attitudes that affect how men perceive you, and why embodying your inner wife is the key to attracting the right man effortlessly.  

If you’ve been feeling stuck in your love life or wondering why your efforts to find “him” aren’t working, this episode will offer you a fresh perspective and actionable steps to shift your energy and mindset.

Click here for the full show notes and links mentioned in this episode. 

 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

• The difference between “take energy” and “love energy” and how they impact your dating life.  
• Why focusing on being a wife helps you feel more confident, feminine, and empowered.  
• How this mindset shift makes you more magnetic to a secure, masculine man who’s ready for marriage.  
• Practical tips to begin embodying your “wife energy” today. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

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In this episode of the Blooming Podcast, we dive into a powerful reflection inspired by a thought-provoking Instagram comment last week.

I share how this moment of clarity redefined my messaging and approach to coaching, emphasizing the importance of mastering singleness, healing past heartbreaks, and learning to trust masculine energy.

Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this episode offers practical insights to help you build confidence, open your heart, and attract the love you deserve.

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Click here to join the Craft Your 2025 Big Love Goals LIVE Workshop this Sunday, January 19th, 2025 at 5pm PST

Click here for the podcast show notes. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

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The Winner Method is the secret to attracting a man that adores you, matches your effort and prioritizes you in his life.

Listen as I teach exactly what the winner method is and why it's so powerful.

Click here to get the masterclass presentation guide.

Ready to make 2025 the year you create the relationship of your dreams?
Join me and other amazing women in Segura. When you join before January 4th at midnight PST, you get special fast action pricing and bonuses. Click here to get all the details and to secure your spot. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

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Do you ever wonder why men seem hesitant to commit, even when you’re doing everything to show them how much you care? In today’s episode, we’re diving into the truth behind commitment fears and why men aren’t actually afraid of committing—they’re afraid of committing to the wrong woman.  

I’ll share a personal story (and a client’s experience) to help you understand the patterns you might be repeating in your relationships. We’ll explore how your past relationship experiences and cultural messages have shaped your beliefs about love, men and commitment, leading you to do things that actually make men NOT WANT to commit to you. 

I’ll describe the kind of woman he DOES want to commit to and why. 

The good news? There’s a better way. I’ll reveal the secret to making him feel like a winner in your relationship and why that’s the key to inspiring commitment. Plus, I’ll share actionable tips and reflection questions to help you shift your approach this week and start attracting the love you truly deserve.  

 WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:

- Why men aren’t afraid of commitment—they’re afraid of committing to the wrong woman.  

- How your past relationships and cultural conditioning impact the way you approach love.  

- The common mistakes women make when trying to inspire commitment (and how to avoid them).  

- The paradigm shift that will change how you view commitment forever.  

- The kind of woman he DOES commit to.  

- How to create a dynamic where he feels ready to commit.

Click here for the full show notes.

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

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In this episode, we’re diving into the popular “black cat” theories that teach women to manipulate, lie, and play games to seem unattainable – and why these tactics don’t work with secure masculine men. Instead, I’ll show you what actually works: becoming a woman who challenges a man to have her through self-respect, high standards, and emotional connection.  

We’ll break down why operating from fear and control puts you in a defensive and offensive position, making a man see you as a competitor rather than a partner. I’ll explain how a secure man needs to pursue, be challenged, and lead to fall in love – and how this process transforms him into the best version of himself.  

If you’ve been feeling stuck in the dating world or frustrated by tactics that backfire, this episode will shift your perspective and give you the tools to create real, lasting connection with the right man.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:  

- Why “playing hard to get” doesn’t work with a secure masculine man.  

- The difference between being hard to get and being challenging to have – and why it matters.  

- How fear and manipulation create a dynamic of competition, not connection.  

- The key things a man needs to fall in love: pursuing, giving, leading, and being challenged.  

- How high standards inspire a man to rise to meet you. 

Click here for the show notes. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

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If you feel like I did, tired of men going from hot and into you to cold and uninterested, this might just be why. 

If you want to learn how I went from believing I intimidated men or needed to be less successful in order to get pursued or taken care of. 

To now finally understand the truth about men and now experience feeling like the prize with him….him seeing you as the woman he would do anything and everything for....this episode is for you.  

Click here for the full show notes

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why men are internally motivated and how this affects relationships.  
• The subtle ways women unintentionally push men away by trying to make things easier for them.  
• How to inspire a man to feel strong, capable, and deeply connected to you.  
• The long-term effects of bringing out the worst in a man vs. the benefits of bringing out the winner in him.  

CLICK HERE to register for The Winner Method LIVE Masterclass on Tuesday, December 17th @ 12:00 pm PST. CLICK HERE to get all the details. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

Connect with me on Instagram ...

If you're ready to be with a man that has you on his mind all day, is counting down the days till your next date and is EXCITED to commit, this episode is for you.

Have you ever felt like you’re doing all the emotional heavy lifting in the relationship? Do relationships feel more like work than play? You know, he's on your mind all day but it's because you're not sure if he likes you or what his intentions are and you find yourself wondering if he feels the way you do and it's more of an anxious over-thinking. You're always waiting for the next time he reaches out because his current rate of connecting never really feels like enough. You feel like you have to hold back on expressing how you really feel about him whether it's with a fun text message to tell him he's on your mind or with a fun date idea, for fear of looking too needy and fearing pushing him away. Or do you feel like you're almost trying to prove that you're the best woman for him by changing who you are, being over accommodating or overlooking red flags? Then this episode is for you.

In this episode, we explore why the selling approach, although it sounds helpful, actually pushes men away. I’m going to share how you can shift your mindset to create a dynamic where HE steps up and chooses you.  

I break down the difference between “selling yourself” and “helping him buy.” You’ll learn how to stop over-functioning, release control, and embrace pacing and proximity to foster mutual respect, trust, and attraction.  

If you’re tired of chasing and ready to become the kind of woman a man can’t wait to commit to, this episode is for you.  

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

- Why “selling yourself” to a man backfires and makes him question your value.  

- How to help a man buy by guiding him to naturally recognize your worth.  

- The role of pace, proximity, and liberty in creating a healthy relationship dynamic.  

- Common mistakes women make in dating, like doing all the work or over-proving themselves.  

- Practical strategies to shift from “proving your worth” to inspiring him to step up.  

RESOURCES:

Go to the full show notes HERE. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

Connect with me on Instagram ...

f you needed a sign to let go of the wrong guy, this is it!

In this week's episode I'm gonna share 10 ways to respectfully tell him you're not interested. I'm also going to let you in on 6 reasons why you're staying that you're probably not aware of . 

I'm also going to share the dangers of dating the wrong man too long and why you need to let him go asap!

 Listen to get all the details!
 
 Want the free download? CLICK HERE!

Watch the video episode on Youtube by CLICKING HERE.

Get the full show notes by CLICKING HERE. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

Connect with me on Instagram ...

If you needed a sign to let go of the wrong guy, this is it!

In this week's episode I'm gonna share 10 ways to respectfully tell him you're not interested. I'm also going to let you in on 6 reasons why you're staying that you're probably not aware of . 

I'm also going to share the dangers of dating the wrong man too long and why you need to let him go asap!

Listen to get all the details!

Want the free download? CLICK HERE!

Watch the video episode on Youtube by CLICKING HERE.

Get the full show notes by CLICKING HERE. 

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STOP dating like the world & date according to The Word. There isn’t a shortage of Godly men out there. You've just been attracting and picking the wrong ones because you've been using a worldly strategy. It's time you experienced the love God wants for you. Segura is the program where I share how I believe you can date, connect with and choose to the right man for you. Click here to download the program now.

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Dating can be tricky to navigate when you want to attract a Godly man and you want your love life to honor and glorify God. 

In this episode I'm sharing the 4 main ways I use the Bible to help me date according to The Word and NOT like the world. Why? So you can attract a Godly man instead of a worldly man. 

I share scripture, concepts and tips so make sure you listen all the way to the end!

Click here for the full show notes.

Click here to watch the video podcast on YouTube. 

What if men aren’t rejecting you — they’re reflecting you?
Learn how your self-perception quietly teaches men how to treat you with The Mirror Effect Guide. Learn how your inner energy creates  love, support, and devotion from men. Download the free guide HERE. 

Your self-image sets the limit on what you attract and create. And when you change the image within, everything reflects differently.

Download The Identity Reset and discover how your past experiences quietly built your identity and how to transform those patterns so love, success, and confidence become your automatic new normal. Download The Identity Guide for free.

Remove subconscious fears while you sleep and change your energy to become emotionally available? You need The Reprogram For Love audios. You'll change your old "type" and feel calm, confident and comfortable in your own skin with ANY MAN. 

12 audio tracks to reprogram your subconscious while you sleep. 

Because when your subconscious changes, your love life changes.

CONNECT WITH ME:

Subscribe to my Youtube channel HERE. 

Connect with me on Instagram ...