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► Links and Resources:

Fearful-Avoidant Attachment Style Video:

https://youtu.be/V5Nn_XOHFX8?si=_CC-9RPCfJgjpCJ7

Toxic Shame Video:

https://youtu.be/ELUfIk0lzxU?si=xSxoVH6I4QUPFDYQ

Avoidant Attachment, Interest in Alternatives, and Infidelity Paper:

https://faculty.wcas.northwestern.edu/eli-finkel/documents/InPress_DeWallLambertSlotterDeckmanPondFinkelLuchiesFincham_JPSP.pdf

Attachment Insecurity and Infidelity in Marriage Paper: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3648986/

Sexual compulsion Paper: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC4394850/

Attachment Insecurity & Problematic Porn Use Paper: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38898361/

ADHD, Attachment Difficulties & Porn Use Paper: https://cris.tau.ac.il/en/publications/the-contribution-of-adhd-and-attachment-difficulties-to-online-po/

Attachment and substance use disorders Review Paper: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16210236/

Child sexual abuse and subsequent psychopathology Paper: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/11344883/

► Episode Timestamps:

00:00 Why Noone Talks About This

01:17 Coping Strategies of Avoidants

03:01 Why Do Avoidants Fall For Addictions or Excessive Behaviors?

07:13 Studies on Avoidant Attachment & Addictions

15:21 Sex, Porn, Affairs: 5 Reasons Why It's the Ideal Escape

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