You suspect your husband is having an affair. He has been acting strange for weeks on end.  You may even have "circumstantial evidence". But how do you know if he really is cheating or is using porn? He won't confess it. Now you're left with just wondering and it is driving you crazy.

What do you do?

In today's episode, I'm going to guide you through some practical steps to take if you suspect your husband is cheating.

This episode was the response to a question sent in by a loyal listener.

Did you know you can submit a question as well and I will answer it on the podcast?  Just submit your question here:  ASK HERE

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D-Day

It's the day we remember as the DAY OF DESTRUCTION. The Day my world shattered into a billion pieces. The day I found out he betrayed me.

• What if you could actually REDEEM that day so it no longer has that kind of power over you?

Well, it can. You CAN redeem D-Day. 

In today's episode, I share 5 steps God had me take to redeem my D-Day and now, that day no longer has power over my life. I am free from it's destruction and you can be too.

Grab your pen and paper and let's dive in...

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Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

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Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Unfortunately, this problem is more common than we'd like to believe.

MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

He was the one who betrayed me!  He was unfaithful. Why do I feel so much shame?

When your spouse's infidelity has been discovered, it can send a tsunami wave of shame to the one who has been betrayed. 

It can be caused by undue shame we place on ourselves as the betrayed or our unfaithful spouse ends up blaming us for their betrayal and it can cause the shame to mount. The betrayal is bad enough, but when you couple it with shame, it attacks your self image, self worth, and can cause you to even enter into guilt and severe insecurity.

What do we do with this?

In today's episode, we will explore the shame of betrayal for the betrayed and how you can navigate it.

I pray this blesses you!

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MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Today is Q & A day!

Another great question from one of our loyal, beautiful women:

How do you know if you can really forgive him for betraying you?  It's so hard. Even God gives us a way out because it's so hard.

How can I truly know if I can actually forgive him?

This is such a hard topic but one that we must address if we are going to really heal from the trauma of betrayal.

I pray this helps you!

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MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

I had the privilege of being a guest on the Unstoppable Growth Podcast with Tim & Rebecca Lindsay - my pastors and incredible mentors - to share my testimony of how God used the Unstoppable Growth program to catapult my life, marriage and ministry into what it is today. 

I pray you enjoy the interview and it inspires you to step into your healing journey.

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MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

Today is Q & A day!

Sarah sent in a question and asked how can you redeem the precious memories within your relationship when they have been tainted by betrayal?

I am giving you 5 ways to "take back" what is rightfully yours.

MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

In the aftermath of a discovery, there is chaos. Your spouse discovered your affair or sexual addiction. This was followed by shock, anger, sadness and an array of emotions. Now there is this huge disconnect between you. You view the story one way while your spouse sees it from a very different perspective.  You are in crisis mode!  What do you do?

You must triage before you can even begin to move forward. But how?

In today's episode, I'm speaking to the unfaithful spouse in order to help you navigate the crisis right after discovery. I'm giving you 5 ideas to help you move through the early crisis stage so you can begin to establish a sense of safety in order to have a chance at reconciliation.

I pray today's episode will spark a great conversation for you and your spouse.

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MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

When you discover your spouse has betrayed you through sexual addiction or an affair, you are thrown into unknown territory.

Your reality has been altered, your world as you knew it has ended, and your life has shattered into a billion pieces.

It is like being in a major accident you didn't cause, yet you have been critically injured and now you are in desperate need of critical care. 

But what is the first step? And what are the next few?

In today's episode, I am sharing your first 5 steps to take when you have been betrayed so you can begin to heal from the devastation of the trauma. 

I pray this helps you begin your healing journey!

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MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE

You are depressed, overwhelmed, can't sleep, can't eat, and you have unexplained pain throughout your body since you've discovered your spouse betrayed you.

Are these symptoms of betrayal trauma?

Are there more?

We are looking at an extensive, yet not exhaustive list of betrayal trauma symptoms in today's episode.

Grab your pen and paper so you can self assess and see if you are actually experiencing some of these symptoms.

MORE RESOURSES:

Beauty Beyond Betrayal Website:  www.beautybeyondbetrayal.org 

Work with Lisa:  Coaching Information  

Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood:   Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women

Grab your Free Ebook:   Broken Vows: Begin healing from the devastation of betrayal

Email:   [email protected]

Got a question you want answered?  ASK HERE