In this episode, Emily invites Ana Eve back on the podcast to talk about why we attach so quickly and common mistakes to avoid that cause you to attach more quickly!

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Do you ever feel like your anxiety is the problem? Like your life would be better if you didn't have it? Believe it or not, this perspective may actually be hindering your healing & making your anxiety worse! In this episode, Emily breaks down what it looks like to learn to work with your anxiety, to stop seeing it as the enemy, and to learn to actually love - yes love - your anxiety.

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Not sure how to tell if it's your anxiety or your intuition talking when a voice tells you to run, to end the relationship, or that you're going to get hurt? Emily breaks down why this happens and how to tell the difference. 

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Do you ever feel like you become a different person around guys you're interested in? Emily unpacks why this happens in this episode of Becoming Secure!

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***Additional Notes/Correction***

Around 16 minutes, Emily says that dismissive avoidants don't trigger as much of the *anxious* side of a fearful avoidant's attachment, but she meant to say they don't tigger the *avoidant* side as much because there's not as much emotional closeness. When fearful avoidants, who have both an anxious and avoidant side to their attachment, date a dismissive avoidant, they will often present more anxious in their relationship and even believe they are anxiously attached. So while the dynamic might seem slightly more stable at first, the FA will often experience more triggers around feeling unloved and unseen because of the lack of emotional intimacy and emotional availability.

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