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  • Why you’re avoidant now in a healthy relationship

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    23 min
  • 8 Things I’d do if I wanted to find a healthy relationship in 2026

    Apply for Attachment Alchemy 

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    42 min
  • Life update, the loss of my cat, and building your own "village"

    In this episode of Becoming Secure, Emily talks about the loss of her cat, the importance of having a village, and how to create one if you don't have that yet.

    More info on the Women's Circle starting in July: https://forms.gle/ktnPsSfVsoa6LqR27

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    58 min
  • Why therapy hasn't healed your anxious attachment

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    28 min
  • Are you actually a fearful avoidant and not anxiously attached?

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    58 min
  • The guys I'm into aren't into me, and I'm not attracted to the guys who ARE into me

    Does it take a long time to find guys you're attracted to? Does it feel like all the guys you're into aren't into you? And that guys who are into you - are definitely not the type you'd go for? Emily unpacks why this happens through an attachment lens in this episode of Becoming Secure!


    Apply for Emily's 1-1 attachment healing program, Attachment Alchemy: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    36 min
  • Do men actually want commitment?

    Register for Un-Situationship-Able today! https://forms.gle/L8EhQiRQjWLG5E5f6

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    21 min
  • How to Get Over Your Situationship - for good!

    Read more and register for ✨Un-Situationship-Able✨ today! https://forms.gle/h1H5aWSUbUGqUc5G6

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    25 min
  • [Situationships] My 5 dating non-negotiables to avoid situationships

    Ready to end the cycle of situationships and attract commitment-ready men? These 5 boundaries will put you on the right path!

    And if you're ready to end the cycle for good, register for Un-Situationship-Able today! A live 5-week coaching program to help you never end up in a situationship again and only attract men who can fully choose you!

    Register Here: https://forms.gle/QipcRRr3CC9Js28n6

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    21 min
  • [Situationships] I told him I wanted a relationship, so why did nothing change?

    You finally worked up the courage to have the hard convo...what are you looking for? He says he doesn't want a relationship right now, butttt...nothing changes after that. He keeps seeing you and acting like things are the same...why?

    Un-Situationship-Able is open for enrollment now! Read more and register here: https://forms.gle/VBqTZm4Urwgwf1VS7

    Apply for 1-1 Work: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14

    Apply to work with Emily 1-1 

    WORKSHOP REPLAY: Am I Settling? 

    You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

    🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

    Get the Replay Here!

    19 min

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You're a successful woman who's got a lot of things going right in your life (dream job, cozy home, amazing friends)...but relationships are a different story. On Becoming Secure, we talk all…

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