On this episode of Becoming Secure, I sat down with my client Janet to talk all about:

• what healthy relationships can really look like
• things you don't have to settle for in relationships
• is it a bad idea to date your ex again
• what's helped her become more secure
• and more!

Want to work with Emily 1-1? Apply for Attachment Alchemy today: https://mailchi.mp/de14c807829a/j109p21a14

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

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In this episode, Emily talks about why you may feel an inexplicable pulls towards certain people, who it ultimately never works out with. These connections can feel intense and special, but is there a deeper reason why that may be? Find out on this episode of Becoming Secure!

The Art of Secure Dating is now open for enrollment! Early bird pricing ends February 1st, so don't wait! Read more details and apply here: https://forms.gle/M7Mr9wrm9v4R7Q969

Want to chat about the program? DM Emily or Ana on Instagram with any questions you have!

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

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You've tried to date the nice guys or the boring guys or the guys you don't feel a spark with, but none of those have brought you the type of relationship you want. There's a very good reason for that - these are all band-aid approaches trying to bypass the actual root issue. In this episode, we unpack why these approaches don't work & what to do instead.

The Art of Secure Dating is now open for enrollment. You can apply here: https://forms.gle/hPfcUQjyJu8upvPB6

Or DM Ana (@anaevecoach) or Emily (@emilyadini) on Instagram if you have any questions or to have a casual chat about whether it's the right fit for you or not!

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1

On this episode, Emily talks about a particular red flag that often seems like a good thing but is actually a form of control/manipulation - something that is common for anxious attachers to miss! Learn what is it and how to prevent it in this episode!

More info & apply for the Art of Secure Dating here: https://forms.gle/gAnHK7ZXcwZFDRVr6

Interested in 1-1 work?
Attachment Alchemy for singles: https://mailchi.mp/1a521d885a77/j8337mrt2g
Secure in Love for those in relationships: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-page

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In the first episode of season 2 of Becoming Secure, Emily and her guest, dating & relationship coach Ana Eve, talk about common reasons anxious attachers miss reds flags, how to spot emotionally unavailable men, and common pitfalls you may experience in the early stages of dating that lead to situationships. 

They also announced their program for singles, the Art of Secure Dating. This is a 6 week group program to help you date securely, discern red flags, and attract emotionally available men…

*** Early Apply for the Next Round of The Art of Secure Dating Here*** https://forms.gle/6prvCSNutfue7Vud9

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Sometimes attachment wounds can make it challenging to know if it's time to let a relationship go or if you should keep working on things. In this episode, Emily talks about one of the main traps that more anxiously attached individuals fall into that keeps them holding onto incompatible relationships. 

If you're currently in a relationship and want to feel more secure in yourself, secure in the relationship, and determine if this is the right relationship for you from a ground, not anxious place, then Secure in Love may be a good fit for you! 

This is for the woman who's got a lot of things going for her - successful in her career, amazing friends - and you're ready to feel as secure in relationships as you do in every other area of your life.

Apply Here: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-page

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1

In this episode, Emily unpacks:

What is the ick? Why do you get it with healthy people? And what to do when you get the ick!

Secure in Love is currently accepting applications: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-page

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1

If you're wondering, "Why do healthy guys feel boring?" and "Will they always feel this way?" then you need to listen to this episode!

It's so common with anxious attachment, disorganized, or avoidant attachment styles to feel like secure relationships or men feel "boring," but it doesn't have to be this way forever!

Emily breaks down why the chemistry feels so "good" with toxic guys but so "meh" with healthy guys & what you can do to actually feel more attracted to healthier men.

Curious about Emily's new 1-1 program, Secure in Love?
Find out more and apply here: https://mailchi.mp/9e28915a6ef0/secure-in-love-application-page

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1

Welcome to Season 1 of Becoming Secure! We're talking all about relationship anxiety! You've found an amazing guy who's emotionally available & checks your boxes and yet...you're pushing away, resisting or sabotaging the healthy relationship you've worked so hard to find! In this episode we talk about why those avoidant tendencies may be coming up now that you've found a healthy man.

Access the Secure in Love free masterclass here: https://mailchi.mp/86e58a751232/secure-in-love-masterclass-replay

WORKSHOP REPLAY HERE: Am I Settling?

You'll learn: The 5 biggest areas where women accidentally settle - with clear examples (so you can know if this is you! 🫣)

🤔 Why you might accidentally settle (and how to resolve that) - so you can know when to stay & when to walk away! 🏃‍♀️

❓Plus time for hot-seat coaching/Q&A - so you can ask questions & get immediate clarity on whether you're settling! 👑

Get the Replay Here!

Apply to work with Emily 1-1