Bela Gandhi, America's Favorite Dating Expert returns to Divorce & Beyond to chat with Susan Guthrie, about the pros and cons of rekindling a romance with an old flame and what to look for before you light that match!

The world has watched with fascination as Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck recently reunited 19 years after they ended their very public romance and engagement.  Bennifer 2.0 has the tabloids and the public around the world watching their every move and their second time around has been raising the question for many of whether or not it is a good idea to get back with an ex.  Lucky for us, Bela Gandhi, Founder of the Smart Dating Academy and darling of morning television such as GMA and Today, is here to share her top green flags and red flags to be on alert for in deciding whether that old love is ready for another spin around the block!  Bela takes us through the many reasons why an old flame may be so appealing, and importantly, what you need to think through to be sure that love will survive the second time around.  Before you look up that old boyfriend or girlfriend on Facebook, listen to this episode!

More information about Bela:  

Bela Gandhi is the Founder of the Smart Dating Academy. She has an uncanny sixth sense about people, and what they need. Her intuition has been responsible for several marriages (and children)! The Huffington Post and Steve Harvey call her "The Fairy Godmother of Dating!"

Bela has been connecting people all of her life. Prior to founding the Smart Dating Academy, Bela worked for 12 years as a top global executive for Akzo Nobel, a large multinational corporation. Bela has two degrees from The University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign (Finance & German), and has been happily married for 20 years with 2 children.

You can find out more about Bela, her date coaching services and her FREE GIFT the 7 Clues You are in a Relationship with a Narcissist Quiz at www.smartdatingacademy.com.

Follow Bela on Instagram @smartdatingacademy and be sure to join her on Thursday nights at 7pm ET for her famous Instagram Lives!

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SUSAN GUTHRIE, ESQ., the creator and host of The Divorce and Beyond Podcast, is nationally recognized as one of the top family law and divorce mediation attorneys in the country.  She is one of the Co-Chair's of the American Bar Association's DR Section Mediation Committee and is the Founder of Divorce in a Better Way which provides a curated selection of resources and information for those facing divorce and other life changes.  Susan has created a website of curated resources for those facing divorce.  Find out more at www.divorceinabetterway.com.

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