Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as "being ghosted."

Just because someone doesn't reply immediately doesn't mean they disappeared — it usually means they're busy living a real life.

This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in the lifestyle.

We break down:

• The difference between being busy and actual ghosting
• Why patience is sexy and entitlement is not
• How lifestyle etiquette gets thrown out the window in DMs
• Why visibility does not equal availability
• Respecting boundaries without killing the vibe
• How pushiness quietly ruins attraction

If you've ever thought "Why haven't they responded yet?" — this episode is for you. Take a breath, slow your roll, and remember that confidence, respect, and patience are what actually make connections last.

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Episode Summary

In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it's really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle.

Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as a content creator naturally overlaps with ethical non-monogamy. We dig into monetization in the lifestyle, why "free access" entitlement is a red flag, and how communication (especially for women) makes sex exponentially better.

Recorded live at Club Eden San Antonio, this episode is funny, sexy, validating, and full of real talk you won't hear anywhere else.

Show Notes

• Meeting Rae and why she fit right in immediately
• Being new to the lifestyle as a single bi woman
• Cosplay, anime cats, and content creation beginnings
• OnlyFans, boundaries, and monetization in the lifestyle
• Entitlement culture and why it doesn't belong here
• Hypersexuality, gooning, and finding your people
• Why communication makes sex better (especially for women)
• Feeling safe at lifestyle events and clubs
• Why content creators absolutely belong in non-monogamy

Guest Info

Rae Crush is a content creator, cosplayer, and lifestyle unicorn known for her playful anime-inspired looks, authenticity, and zero-BS honesty.

Find Rae here: https://raecrush.carrd.co

About Beyond Monogamy

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris explores real conversations around consensual non-monogamy, swinging, lifestyle dynamics, sex positivity, and connection — without the fluff or judgment.

Website & extras: www.beyond-monogamy.com

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In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio.

From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love this lifestyle.

We talk about:

• Hosting our first Beyond Monogamy meet & greet at a lifestyle club
• Recording a podcast inside Club Eden before doors opened
• Being lifestylers who also create adult content — without being salesy
• Entitlement, authenticity, and monetizing the lifestyle
• How one play session turned into a full-blown multi-person orgy
• Why comfort, trust, and connection matter more than labels
• Overcoming anxiety as hosts and fully leaning into the night

This episode is raw, funny, sexy, chaotic, and honest — exactly what a Wednesday QUICKIE should be. If you've ever wondered what happens when podcast hosts, content creators, and lifestyle friends collide at a club… this one's for you.

Want to see us in person? We've already posted the first half of our 2026 events calendar.

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SUMMARY

Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term "ethical non-monogamy," there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic.

In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, and consent was just starting to evolve.

From key clubs and the dawn of "no-fault" divorce to the lessons that still apply to modern swingers, Sam's stories remind us how much the world has changed — and how much it really hasn't. We talk about jealousy, connection, freedom, communication, and how couples can keep their spark alive even decades later.

This one's a fun, flirty, and eye-opening history lesson for anyone exploring non-monogamy today. Sam's humor and honesty prove that freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile.

SHOW NOTES

• Guest: Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances
• Topics covered:
  • The sexual revolution and how "key clubs" started it all
  • How couples handled jealousy and boundaries before "rules" existed
  • What freedom meant for women in the 60s and 70s — and what's at stake today
  • Why communication and consent still make or break connection
  • How to keep date nights, desire, and humor alive — even after 60+ years of marriage
• Favorite quote from Sam: "Freedom without communication is just chaos wearing a smile."

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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Real talk, real couples, real connection.

This Week's QUICKIE: Confessionals

This week's QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories.

Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with "horny brain." From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it's equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable.

They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the handmade gifts (yes, including a penis whistle), talk about their live hotel-takeover show that almost survived the tech gods, and share why sometimes the best nights in the lifestyle are the ones spent doing absolutely nothing.

👉 Don't forget: Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Saturday, Dec 13 @ 9 PM Central at Club Eden in San Antonio! Come hang out, meet the crew, and catch a live show taping before doors open.

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🗒️ Show Notes

Episode: QUICKIE Confessionals Hosts: Adam & Pris Alvarez

Highlights:

• Real listener confessions about navigating attraction, rejection, and self-doubt in the lifestyle
• The struggle of saying "no" gracefully — and why honesty is the sexiest thing you can bring to playtime
• "Horny brain" moments, hotel takeovers, and why it's okay to skip the play and just rest
• The awkward art of separating vanilla life from lifestyle life
• BDSM trust, vulnerability, and what it means to feel truly safe with your partner
• A special shoutout to The Happy Swinger — custom lifestyle-themed gifts, including that unforgettable dick whistle

🎟️ Upcoming Event:

Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Naughty & Nice Edition 📍 Club Eden San Antonio 📅 Saturday, Dec 13 • 9 PM CST Come meet Adam & Pris, join the party, and be part of the Beyond Monogamy energy live!

💬 Submit your own anonymous story via the Beyond Monogamy Confessional at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com.

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🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She's teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe.

From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it's a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly human. Whether you're a swinger, poly, ENM, or just relationship-curious, this episode is packed with truth bombs, belly laughs, and practical takeaways you can use tonight.

🔥 Key Topics

• How to make consent sound sexy, not clinical
• The two questions swingers fear most — and how to stop being awkward about them
• Why self-love is your sexiest asset
• Nookie's guide to dating apps (and how to filter out the first layer of scum 😉)
• The art of slowing down and tapping into your feminine energy
• Confidence, communication, and why monogamy isn't "natural" — it's a choice

💬 Favorite Quotes

• "Big life changes come from small mindset changes." – Ms. Nookie
• "If you don't love yourself, why would I?" – Adam
• "Monogamy isn't natural. Anything you have to work at isn't." – Ms. Nookie
• "You craft your relationship. It doesn't have to fit society's box." – Ms. Nookie

✨ Connect with Ms. Nookie

• 🌐 Website: https://msnookie.com
• 📸 Instagram: Follow on Instagram
• 📘 Facebook: Follow on Facebook
• 🧵 Threads: Follow on Threads
• 💼 LinkedIn: Connect on LinkedIn

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QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival

Hosts: Adam & Pris

Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE

Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized)

Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December's money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when "just not in the mood" becomes the default setting. They unpack how finances and old triggers collide with lifestyle plans, why connection matters more than performance, and how to reset as a couple when the season gets heavy.

Expect straight talk, empathy, and laugh-out-loud moments you'll relate to immediately — plus real tips on surviving the holidays without sacrificing your relationship health (or your sense of humor).

Key Talking Points & Highlights

• Why December feels like the "broke season" for couples and how that impacts desire
• Stress vs. sex: the evolution from "f**k the stress away" to intentional reconnection
• Pris on shutting down when overwhelmed — and what helps pull her back in
• Adam's raw story of surviving Christmas while homeless, and why the holidays can trigger old memories
• Practical compassion: how to prioritize your partner when they need comfort more than play
• Community matters: you are not alone in holiday blues or financial stress

Favorite Quotes "We're dropping money at Thanksgiving and we're dropping money at Christmas… the weeks in between are literally broke weeks." "Sometimes I just need a hug, not a hookup." "You're not the only ones who are stressed… when things are better, you bang it out." Find Us, Join Us, Talk to Us

• Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Upcoming Events Texas Desires Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover — Dec 5–7, 2025

We'll be there all weekend doing a live show and mixing it up. Day passes and rooms still available — come hang out with us!

Club Eden Meet & Greet (San Antonio) — Dec 13, 2025 @ 9 PM

Naughty & Nice: Beyond Santa's List — the perfect holiday mingle if you're local or nearby. See the Events tab for details.

All details live on our Events tab.

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Episode Summary

Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel—from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn any couples' getaway into something unforgettable.

If you've been curious about Temptation Cancun, Hedonism in Jamaica, group trips, or simply want a romantic, private escape that fits your budget and boundaries, this episode gives you a step-by-step feel for what to expect and how to book like a pro.

Keywords: Temptation Resort, Temptation Cancun, Hedonism Jamaica, lifestyle travel, swinger travel, adults-only resorts, couples vacations, Caribbean travel tips, travel safety, payment plan vacations, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Tropical Unicorn Travels.

Show Notes Guest: Tropical Unicorn Travels

• Name: Jhannyphil Contreras
• Website: tropicalunicorntravels.com
• Instagram: @tropicalunicorntravels
• TikTok: @tropicalunicorntravels
• What She Does: Helps couples plan lifestyle-friendly, adults-only trips (with privacy), matching resort vibe to comfort level—plus realistic budgeting, flexible deposits, and travel safety coaching.

What We Cover

• How curiosity (not participation) brought Jhannyphil into lifestyle spaces and ultimately to Temptation Resort
• Body confidence & community: why lifestyle-friendly environments often feel more welcoming
• Resort vibes 101: choosing adults-only vs. party vs. chill—and when the Caribbean is actually at its best
• Planning smart: deposits, payment timelines, and why booking 3+ months out matters
• Safety basics: vetting plans, avoiding scams, and protecting your privacy when traveling
• Romance on a budget: small details (limo transfers, room setups, surprises) that land big

Quick Tips & Insights

• Best Caribbean window: roughly November–April for prettier beaches & milder weather
• Budget sanity: flexible deposits & payment plans can make bigger trips realistic
• Excursions: book after you feel out your energy on arrival—don't lock yourself into early mornings post-party

Chapters

1. Intro & guest story
2. Finding lifestyle spaces & community energy
3. Temptation Resort and resort-vibe matching
4. Safety, privacy, and smart planning
5. Budget, deposits, and when to book
6. Romance tips & easy "wow" moments
7. How to work with a travel pro

Connect with Beyond Monogamy

• Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
• Events: Upcoming events & live shows
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• Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy

Call to Action

• Book a lifestyle-friendly trip with Tropical Unicorn Travels: tropicalunicorntravels.com
• Join our Patreon community for extras & behind-the-scenes: patreon.com/beyondmonogamy
• Share this episode with a travel-curious couple & leave a review on Apple or Spotify

🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy

Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest lessons, raw behind-the-scenes stories, and the truth about juggling love, libido, and life on air. Whether you're a new listener or a long-time fan, this episode proves that honesty, humor, and real talk are the heart of non-monogamy done right. Hear how Beyond Monogamy grew from a small Thanksgiving idea into a global community — and why Adam & Pris are just getting started.

🎉 Beyond Monogamy Turns One!

One year ago, Adam & Pris hit record without knowing what the hell they were doing—and somehow turned Beyond Monogamy into one of the most talked-about shows in ethical non-monogamy. This anniversary episode is part reflection, part roast, and 100% real.

🔥 What You'll Hear:

• How the podcast changed their marriage (and communication)
• Funniest and most emotional behind-the-scenes moments
• What surprised them most about fame inside the lifestyle
• Lessons from swinging, polyamory, and finding confidence
• The listener messages that made them realize they're helping people
• Why year two will be bigger, deeper, and wilder

💬 Adam & Pris Say:

"We started this as a hobby—and now it's a mission. If you've ever felt seen, challenged, or cracked up listening to us… thank you. You're part of this crazy, beautiful ride."

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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — Raw, Real, and Definitely Not PG.

What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston's most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with Nicole and Isaac, founders of Pineapple House TX, for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun.

They talk about how it all started, the challenges of throwing house parties in the lifestyle, and what separates Pineapple House TX from anything else in the Houston scene. From custom-built themed rooms and a fully functional (and classy) glory wall, to screening guests for safety and comfort, Nicole and Isaac have created an experience that balances erotic freedom with genuine hospitality.

This one's equal parts funny, raw, and informative — perfect for anyone curious about what really goes on behind the black curtain at a lifestyle house party.

Show Notes

Episode: Inside Pineapple House TX: The Houston Couple Redefining Lifestyle House Parties

Guests: Nicole & Isaac — Founders of Pineapple House TX

Location: Houston, Texas

About This Episode

Adam and Pris take listeners inside one of the most unique lifestyle spots in Texas — Pineapple House TX. The founders, Nicole and Isaac, share how they went from attending events to creating their own, why safety and comfort are their top priorities, and what they've learned after years of hosting themed, inclusive, and wildly creative house parties.

Topics Covered

• How Isaac started in the kink and BDSM community before entering the swinging scene
• Nicole's journey from curiosity to confidence in her bisexuality and lifestyle comfort
• Building a judgment-free, welcoming environment for newbies and experienced couples alike
• Why their parties are different — themed rooms, lighting, music, and intentional hosting
• The screening process for guests (especially single men) and why safety comes first
• Lessons learned from their very first party (and the 15 pizzas no one showed up for)
• The emotional rollercoaster of hosting and what keeps them motivated
• Why consent, comfort, and community always come before play

Beyond Monogamy at Pineapple House TX

Adam and Pris share their firsthand experience attending Pineapple House TX — including the décor, themed rooms like the Zen Room, Enchanted Forest, and Orgy Room, and the surprisingly classy take on the glory wall that became a crowd favorite.

The conversation dives into how Pineapple House TX strikes a perfect balance between erotic energy and genuine hospitality, giving new meaning to "Texas-sized" fun in the lifestyle house party scene.

Where to Find Pineapple House TX

• Website: https://sites.google.com/pineapplehousetx.com/home
• Instagram: @thepineapplehousetx
• Lifestyle sites: Search "TravelingCoupl3" on SDC and Quiver

Connect with Beyond Monogamy

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• Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy

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