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In the last episode, we talked about why English vocabulary feels so hard — especially for Chinese speakers.

We talked about mismatch.

We talked about why forgetting is not a personal flaw, but a predictable outcome of the wrong learning model.

So today, I want to move us forward.

Because once you understand why something doesn’t work, the next question is obvious.

So… What actually does work?

In this episode, I want to show you how English vocabulary is meant to be learned.

Not through painful memorization, but through context, patterns, emotion, and something called spiral learning.

This is the episode where things finally start to make sense. Let’s get it rolling!

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Let me start today’s episode with a very honest question.

Why does English vocabulary feel so hard to memorize — especially for Chinese speakers?

Why do we keep learning the same words, seeing them again and again, and still forgetting them?

Most people explain this problem in very simple ways.

They say:

“I don’t have a good memory.”, “I’m not disciplined enough.”, or “I didn’t review hard enough.”

But in today’s episode, I want to challenge that idea.

Because the real problem is not memory.

The real problem is mismatch.

A mismatch between how Chinese trains your brain, and how English actually works as a language.

In this episode, I don’t want to teach you how to memorize words just yet.

I want to explain why forgetting English vocabulary is actually predictable, and why, for Chinese speakers, it’s almost inevitable if we use the wrong learning model.

If you’ve ever felt frustrated, guilty, or confused about vocabulary, this episode is for you.

OK! Let’s get into it.

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今天这集，我想聊一个最近很「热门」的冰雪主题：Winter Olympics冬季奥运会。

就在前几天，今年2026年的冬季奥运才刚刚落幕，今年的冬季奥运举办的地点是在意大利北部像是米兰等城市，而今年的冬季奥运一如往常的带来很多的话题和storyline。

今天这集，我想要带你们从冬奥的历史，讲讲冬奥怎么诞生、怎么变成现在的样子；一直到近年来体育赛事怎么会变成国家力量展现和角逐的重头戏，很有趣哦，准备好了吗？Let's get it rolling！

� 本期的知识卡片我们整理在下面啦：

1. Key Vocabulary (核心词汇)

2. Native Expressions (地道表达)

"Let’s get it rolling!"Meaning: 让我们开始吧！（播客或活动开场常用，比 "Let's start" 更具动感）。

"Happened first, and was named later."Meaning: 先发生，后命名。形容冬奥会初期并非刻意规划，而是自然演变后的产物。

"Medals are never just medals."Meaning: 奖牌从来不只是奖牌。暗示奖牌背后承载的国家实力、科研和体制支撑。

"Social media-friendly / Short-form video ready"Meaning: 适合社交媒体/短视频传播。形容像 Big Air（大跳台）这种视觉冲击力强、节奏快的项目。

3. Cultural & Historical Context (文化背景)

Chamonix 1924:The birthplace of the Winter Games. Originally called "International Winter Sports Week." It reflects the transition of winter sports from survival skills (生存技能) to lifestyle symbols (生活方式的象征).

The "Miracle on Ice" (1980):A legendary moment in sports history where a team of American college students defeated the professional Soviet team. It’s the ultimate symbol of the Cold War rivalry (冷战对峙) played out on ice.

Subculture vs. Mainstream:Snowboarding is the best example. It started as a "rebellious" (反叛的) street culture and was even banned from resorts before becoming one of the most popular Olympic events.

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新年假期过了，Happy Belated Chinese New Year, everyone.

在新年之前，因为都在介绍中国新年，有一个很有趣而且大家都在庆祝的节日背后的故事我却忘记介绍了，那就是——

Valentine's Day，情人节。

在情人节的时候：餐厅订不到、花变超贵、社群上忽然一堆粉红色，单身的人突然有点尴尬，有伴的人突然有点压力。

可是问题来了——

你有没有真的想过：

� 为什么是 2 月 14 号？

� 为什么一定要浪漫？

� 为什么「不做点什么」好像就不太对？

今天这一集，我想做的不是教大家怎么过情人节，

而是来介绍情人节这个节日是怎么来的，

这个节日，一开始其实非常不浪漫，甚至还令人有点悲伤。

� 本期的知识卡片我们整理在下面啦：

2. Key Phrases (地道短语)

Love shifted from duty to desire.爱从一种“责任”转变为了一种“欲望”。

A season of longing.一个渴望/思念的季节。

Standard equipment (標配).文案中对应表达：A staple of Valentine’s Day 或 Standard practice.

Bitter-sweet (苦中带甜).形容黑色情人节那种自嘲但又期待爱情的心境。

A world where love was regulated.一个爱被管制的世界。

3. Cultural Nuggets (文化要点)

The Origin (起源): It traces back to St. Valentine, a priest in the 3rd century Roman Empire who secretly performed marriages for soldiers, defying the Emperor's ban.(起源于3世纪，瓦伦丁神父违反禁令，秘密为士兵证婚。)

The Shift (转折): The medieval poet Geoffrey Chaucer helped link the day to romance and "bird-pairing."(中世纪诗人乔叟将此日与浪漫和鸟类配对联系在一起。)

Modern Commercialization (现代商业化): Companies like Hallmark turned emotions into products. Romance became something you could buy, wrap, and present.(像Hallmark这样的公司将情感商品化，浪漫变成了可以购买、包装和赠送的东西。)

4. Reflective Sentences (深度思考/写作句型)

Use these to practice your English speaking or writing:

"Valentine’s Day slowly shifted from choosing love to proving it."(情人节慢慢从“选择爱”变成了“证明爱”。)

"In a consumer culture, proof is often measured in spending."(在消费主义文化中，证明通常是用消费来衡量的。)

"Love has always existed somewhere between sacrifice and celebration."(爱一直存在于牺牲与庆典之间的某个地方。)

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Before we step into the Lunar New Year, this is our last episode for the Year of the Snake.

And instead of talking about goals, or resolutions, or what we should become next year—I want to do something different.

Today, I want to tell you a story.

A story that people have told for generations, on the very last night before the new year begins.

A story that was meant to prepare us for the noise, for the color red, for the firecrackers, and for the light.

So wherever you are right now — maybe you’re cleaning the house,maybe you’re on your way home,maybe you’re lying in bed — take a deep breath.

This story is not just to entertain you.

It’s here to help us cross the threshold from one year into the next.

This is the story of the night when a village stopped running.

This… is the story of Nian.

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Today we’re talking about a skill that sounds small… but honestly can shape your social life, your career, and even how quickly you feel at home in a new country.

We’re talking about small talk.

I used to think small talk was pointless. Like… why are we talking about the weather? We both have eyes. We can see it’s sunny.

But after living in the U.S., and now in Australia, I’ve realized something important.

Small talk isn’t about information.

Small talk is about connection.

It’s the way humans gently signal to each other:

“I’m friendly. I’m safe. I’m open to interacting.”

And once you see it that way, small talk suddenly feels less fake… and more like a social superpower.

So today, let’s really unpack it — what it is, why Westerners are so good at it, why many of us from East Asian cultures feel awkward, why we’re all getting worse at it in the social media age, and how small talk can actually lead to deep relationships.

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你在听这集podcast的当下,你知道今天是什么日子吗?

此时此刻在美国还是星期天,而这个星期天就是全美国的家庭都在做同一件事情的星期天 —- Super Bowl Sunday超级碗或者超级盃星期日!

在这一天,全美国不仅仅一起看球,还会一起吃东西、一起看表演、一起吐槽广告、一起社交的文化仪式。

所以我今天介绍美国人是怎么庆祝这场每年最大的娱乐盛事的。

� 本期的知识卡片我们整理在下面啦：

� 卡片 1：超级碗核心词汇 (Core Vocabulary)

Super Bowl Sunday: 超级碗星期日（全美家庭共同参与的文化仪式）。

NFL (National Football League): 美式橄榄球联盟。

Halftime Show: 中场秀（从体育赛事转化为全球流行文化事件的关键环节）。

Commercials / Ads: 广告（超级碗期间的广告被视为年度营销大戏）。

Jersey: 球衣（球迷在看球或去酒吧时常穿）。

� 卡片 2：媒体与市场营销术语 (Marketing & Media Terms)

Average Viewers: 平均观看人数（2025年达到史上最高的1.277亿）。

Household Rating: 家庭收视率（代表全美有电视的家庭中，有多少比例在看该节目）。

Brand Storytelling: 品牌叙事（如Apple 1984广告，不只是卖产品，而是在卖信念）。

Cultural Conversation: 文化讨论/社会话题（品牌购买昂贵的广告位，是为了引发全民讨论和转发）。

Marketing Showcase / Casebook: 营销大秀/真实案例（超级碗常被MBA或市场营销课当作教材）。

� 卡片 3：社交与生活方式 (Social & Culture)

Social Ritual: 社交仪式（超级碗不仅是比赛，更是一种聚会、同乐的仪式）。

National TV Moments: 全国性的电视时刻（在信息碎片化时代，极少数能让全美注意力集中的时刻）。

Host a Party: 举办派对（常指在家里邀请朋友一起看球）。

Watch Party: 观赛派对。

Dorm / Apartment: 宿舍/公寓（美国大学生看超级碗的典型场所）

� 卡片 4：派对食物 (Party Food / Finger Food)

Finger Food: 手拿食物（不需要刀叉，方便边看边吃的食物）。

Buffalo Wings: 水牛城辣鸡翅。

Chips and Dip: 薯片配蘸酱。

Nachos: 墨西哥玉米片（常搭配酪梨酱）。

Sliders: 迷你汉堡。

� 卡片 5：地道短语与金句 (Idiomatic Expressions & Quotes)

"It’s not just a game. It’s a social ritual." （这不仅是一场比赛，更是一场社交仪式。）

"Shh! This is the good part!" （嘘！精彩的部分来了！——指超级碗观众在广告时间也会专注观看。）

"We’re not just selling a product. We’re selling a belief." （我们卖的不只是产品，而是信念。）

"Invite friends over": 邀请朋友来家里。

"Reserve seats / Book a booth": 在酒吧预订座位或包厢。

� 卡片 6：朗读与语感练习 (Recap Reading)

Super Bowl Sunday isn’t just about football. It’s one of the last national rituals in the United States—a day when tens of millions of people gather in living rooms, dorm rooms, and bars, sharing food, cheering together, and turning a game into a social celebration. With household ratings above forty percent in recent years, the Super Bowl remains a rare moment when America watches the same thing at the same time.

超级碗星期日不仅仅关乎橄榄球。它是美国最后的全国性仪式之一——在这一天，数以千万计的人们聚集在客厅、宿舍和酒吧里，分享美食，共同欢呼，将一场比赛转变为一场社交庆典。随着近年来家庭收视率超过40%，超级碗依然是全美在同一时间观看同一事物的罕见时刻。

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在前几天的那集say hi中，我介绍了有关中国农历新年的故事、习俗和庆祝方式该怎么样用英文来介绍，而今天这一集呢，我想要进一步讲讲新年文化的一部分，就是吉祥话。

我们华人讲的那些「吉祥话」，可不是随便说说的。

每一句背后都有故事、有语言双关、有历史背景，甚至还藏着古代人的世界观。

所以今天这一集，我要带大家用英文，把我们最常讲的过年吉祥话，一句一句讲清楚。

最后，我们再来加码——今年是 马年 �，那些跟「马」有关的吉祥话，怎么用英文讲得又有画面、又有文化，来讲给大家听。

� 本期的知识卡片我们整理在下面啦：

� 恭喜发财

English: Wishing you prosperity and wealth / Gong Hei Fat Choi

Culture：

Gong Hei Fat Choi 是粤语版本，来自早期广东、香港移民在西方留下的春节用语。

� 年年有余

English: May you have surplus year after year

Culture：

“余”和“鱼”同音，留鱼不吃完，象征把富足留到来年。

� 岁岁平安

English: Wishing you peace and safety year after year

Culture：

“岁”和“碎”同音，用语言把不吉利转化为祝福。

� 心想事成

English:May all your wishes come true

Culture：

强调内在愿望会带来外在结果，带有东方哲学意味。

� 步步高升

English:May you rise higher step by step

Culture：

重视稳定成长，而不是一步登天。

� 财源广进

English:May wealth flow in from all directions

Culture：

财富被看作是“流动”而来的机会和连接。

� 阖家幸福

English:Wishing happiness to your whole family

Culture：

华人祝福以家庭为单位，而非个人。

� 大吉大利

English:Wishing you great luck and great success

Culture：

万能型新年祝福，把所有好运一次打包。

� Year of the Horse｜马年吉祥话

� 马到成功

Horse English:May success gallop (马飞快地跑）to you on horseback

Natural English:May you achieve instant success

Culture：

马象征速度与成功，这是一句有画面的祝福。

� 一马当先

Horse English:May you lead the way like the horse at the front

Natural English:May you always be ahead of others

Culture：

象征领先、带头、主动出发。

� 快马加鞭

Horse English:May you spur your horse on to even greater victories

Natural English:May you keep pushing forward and achieve more

Culture：

已经很快了，还要突破自我。

� 马不停蹄

Horse English:May your horse never stop running toward your goals

Natural English:May your progress never slow down

Culture：

持续前进，不停歇。

� 马上有钱

Horse English:May wealth arrive on horseback right away

Natural English:May money come to you quickly

Culture：

“马上”= 立刻，现代中文谐音梗。

� 龙马精神

Horse English:Wishing you the strength of a dragon and the stamina of a horse

Natural English:Wishing you great energy and vitality

Culture：

祝身体健康、精神旺盛，常用于长辈。

� 万马奔腾

Horse English:May your year charge forward like ten thousand horses

Natural English:May your year be full of unstoppable momentum

Culture：

形容强大的气势和动能。

� “属马”英文怎么说？

Key Expression：Chinese zodiac sign

常见问法

What’s your Chinese zodiac sign?

标准回答

I was born in the Year of the Horse.

My Chinese zodiac sign is the Horse.

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So every single year — and I mean every year — around Chinese New Year, I get the same questions from my non-Chinese friends.

They’ll go like:

“Wait… Chinese New Year isn’t on January 1st?”

“Why is everything red?”

“And why does it feel like the entire country just… disappears for a week?”

So today, I want to share how I personally explain Chinese New Year to foreigners — in a normal conversation, over coffee, at work, or at my kids’ school.

No textbooks.

No complicated history lectures.

Just the version that actually works.

Ready? Let’s get it rolling!

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前阵子我回了一趟上海。

主要是办「纵横四海」还有MBA的线下活动，虽然行程很忙，但是还是有抽空跟一些上海的好朋友一起catch up，其中最开心的就是跟我 MBA 时期最好的朋友 Nick 见个面。

我们聊了最近生活的感悟、工作上面和心境上面的变化等等，当然，也聊到了我在澳洲的生活，聊了两个多小时，快走之前，Nick 看着我说了一句话。

他说:

"David, I don't know how to explain it,

but after this past year in Australia,

you seem more… grounded."

我听到那句话，其实心里停了一下，给他会心的一笑。

Grounded 这个字，我当然知道意思，但我也突然意识到——

这种用来形容「内在状态和幸福感」的英文词，我好像还没有给Say Hi的大家来好好介绍一下。

所以今天这一集 Say Hi，我想用九个英文形容词，来跟你聊聊英文里怎么形容一种「人生慢慢稳下来、幸福与满足感」的状态。

� 本期的知识卡片我们整理在下面啦：

1️⃣ Grounded

中文理解：

脚踏实地、内在踏实、不被生活推着跑

核心感觉：

� 我知道自己站在哪里

常见搭配：

feel grounded / keep someone grounded

例句：

After moving abroad, I feel more grounded.

Spending time with my family really grounds me.

2️⃣ Centered

中文理解：

回到自己、内在对齐、不被外界拉走

核心感觉：

� 心回来了

常见语境：

冥想、心理状态、人生阶段

例句：

Meditation helps me feel centered.

I wasn’t very centered during that phase of my life.

3️⃣ Anchored

中文理解：

被价值、关系或信念稳稳固定住

画面感：

� 海很乱，但你有锚

常见搭配：

anchored by / anchored to

例句：

My family keeps me anchored.

I’m anchored by my values.

4️⃣ Settled

中文理解：

定下来了，不再反复怀疑人生方向

隐藏含义：

� 不再每天问「是不是选错了」

例句：

It took years, but I finally feel settled.

Life feels more settled now.

5️⃣ At ease

中文理解：

放松、安心、不用防备

情感层次：

� 不用撑、不用演

常见搭配：

feel at ease / at ease with

例句：

I feel at ease around you.

He seems at ease in his own skin.

6️⃣ Content

中文理解：

满足但不自满，接受当下的自己

容易误会的点：

不是放弃

是成熟的满足

例句：

I’m content with my life right now.

He’s content, not complacent.

7️⃣ Fulfilled

中文理解：

深层满足感，来自「值得」

关键词：

� 值不值得，而不是累不累

常见搭配：

deeply fulfilling

例句：

The work is challenging, but deeply fulfilling.

I feel fulfilled when my work makes a difference.

8️⃣ Whole

中文理解：

完整的、不再觉得自己少一块

心理层面：

� 不再用未来否定现在

例句：

I finally feel whole.

She no longer looks for validation to feel whole.

9️⃣ Balanced

中文理解：

内在协调、人生角色不打架

重要观念：

� Balance ≠ 平均

� Balance = 可持续

例句：

I’m trying to live a more balanced life.

Balance doesn’t mean equal—it means sustainable.

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